<p>Hello, all. I’ve been mostly lurking on this thread but have been following it for many months now. Thought I’d chime in now that we are counting down! MY DS’s school has been holding College Admissions sessions for junior parents this week but alas, DH and I are out of town and could not make any of the sessions. Thankfully the school will post a podcast next week.</p>
<p>Each counselor has also held a group session for his or her students, and will have individual sessions in the next month or so. I asked my DS what he learned from the group session and he said that he already knew most of it for me. So hats of to you folks out there on CC for sharing your wisdom!</p>
<p>DS also attended an alumni panel just before break and came away with some tidbits (e.g., start essays over the summer) that I had been telling him, but I guess some things are different hearing from friends and peers than from your mother.</p>
<p>My DS will also only have 3 years of HS foreign language, mainly because he had so many other classes he wanted to take. I have to say it was the right decision for him and his GC agreed that it wouldn’t matter for his particular interests and our high school’s unique profile.</p>
<p>We got PSAT results before Winter Break, and DS is on the border. We live in a state with a high cutoff unfortunately. He would easily make it in most other states. He’s a little disappointed since our school typically has well over 100 kids make NMF every year, so many of his friends will make it, but such is life.</p>
<p>Even without NMF his stats give him good chances for merit aid at several places, including Alabama. We have told him that he can choose wherever he wants to go to school, and finances are not a worry. HOWEVER, whatever money is left over after undergraduate is his to keep, so it is up to him to decide how much of a nest egg he wants to have left over. If he chooses a school where we are full pay (other than our state schools) then he will have nothing left. If he chooses a school that gives him good merit aid, or stays in-state, he could have a very hefty sum when he graduates! I figure this gives him some skin in the game.</p>
<p>We are touring several schools in the Midwest over Spring Break. DS is interested in engineering and we can hit a number of top programs (Michigan, Purdue, Illinois) in one fell swoop. We’ll also hit Rose-Hulman for a completely different feel from the big state schools. And we will also see Northwestern and Wash U. Lots of driving and mother -son bonding! </p>
<p>I have a DD (2018) so i get a bit of a break in college chaos between the two. She declined to accompanynus on this tour and is instead going to London with DH over break. I am jealous!</p>