<p>College4many "
I’m not sure how to approach the timing of the testing with my 2014er but am finding the plans you are sharing to be helpful.</p>
<p>I have a 2014er studying overseas this summer(i.e. no time to do studying or test prep related to life in the USA), returning home in August days before the start of the fall high school sports season with less than one month to knock off summer AP homework from four courses and hopefully engaging in necessary ACT/SAT test prep. Then school begins with sports practice every day after school and 3 days before school, 3 clubs, one of which has real responsibilities due to holding an officer position, musical instrument practice, studying for four AP classes, 1 college class, while maintaining enough brain power to pull off ACT/SAT prep and meeting scholarship deadlines for future overseas study scholarship which include enough essay writing to somewhat resemble a college application. The end of the fall sport then brings the beginning of the winter sport. One bright spot is no spring sport</p>
<p>I have to wonder how scholarly, musical, athletic, leadership type kids pull this off without having a nervous breakdown. My high school experience was not like this. I was actually well rested unlike so many kids today. I’d prefer my child not be a walking zombie during the day but how does one avoid that?"</p>
<p>I think most zombies are caused by facebook/xbox during study hours, as much as the actual work load. 2 sports+plus serious musical instrument sounds more like a kid who is doing what he loves and less like a kid who is packaging himself for maximum college chances at the highest level. Doing what he loves has real appeal. But he won’t impress those most lottery-like schools unless he is ‘State Level’ in a sport or music, and even then, he’ll have a 5% chance - is that worth him giving up what he loves to hone a single track?</p>
<p>I think part of growing up is figuring out how much is ‘too much.’ My guess is that your child may well find out this year. I think that a lot of colleges would rather see a kid having a full life without time for SAT/ACT prep than stellar SAT/ACT scores, the same way that they might question a kid who took AP tests without the AP classes: What didn’t you do during the time you were self-teaching AP material, and if you gave up alot, does that fact that you make that choice mean you’ll be a dull person to have on campus? ((Obviously this doesn’t apply to kids who have meaningful ECs and just happen to be smart enough to get 5s on AP without a lot of prep.))</p>
<p>I don’t think that most kids need SAT prep to get into most good fit colleges (and this opinion is based on no solid experience) and it’s only the very weird little bubble that is occurring around the top ‘lottery’ schools that is making SAT prep seem like the normal thing to do.</p>
<p>I had to face this similar thing when my son didn’t want to try and get a Junior year internship in a Lab or do Science Fair or Science Olympiad. He wants to play basketball, be in the school musical, and concentrate on his grades. My kid isn’t State level in <em>any</em> thing. So that makes him a much less serious contender for the Engineering Lottery schools, but it helps him make good use of the resources of High School, and he still has that ‘lottery’ chance. As long as I keep the long term goal of him growing into the best person he can be in the front of my mind and don’t get sucked into the ‘Most competitive college possible will lead to the best life possible’ mindframe, I think he is making the right choice for him. Mostly.</p>
<p>Hope that helps,
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