Middlesex - most engaging and happy tour guide, friendliest AO, most courteous and helpful staff. Teachers and coaches went out of their way to spend time and talk at length with us. Great chemistry with everyone. Mindfulness class. Leadership training. Cons: the campus felt too small, the dorm we saw wasn’t good, going to Concord not as easy as we expected, rules too restrictive (lights out, study hours, etc)
Loomis - I loved the setting by the river, the layout of the campus, town within walking distance, proximity to airport. The dorms were the best! Liked the music hall. The Director of Admissions stopped by to greet each parent. Cons: School-wide gatherings not as frequent as we liked. Both student guides were rather dull, one of them made bad remarks about another school.
Andover - most articulate student guides, kind students, everyone seemed to have fun. Con: there are some really rude people in Admissions. Won’t say more.
Exeter - I liked the small college town setting and the intellectual atmosphere. Everyone we stopped to ask for directions was very kind and helpful. It’s hard to come up with positives because we had the most inarticulate and unprepared student guide. Didn’t see the library, the science building, or the athletic facilities, but were shown the chapel! We saw kids who sat by themselves absorbed in reading. We saw too many chalkboards. Didn’t care much for the dorms or the dining hall.
Choate - I liked the campus layout, the athletic facilities, the student activities center, the chapel, the new math and science building, the innovative teaching methods, the summer research program. Great AO, responsive teachers, warm staff. Not many downsides (except one teacher who was quite condescending).
SPS - most beautiful campus. The library, the chapel, the science building, the athletic center. Daily school-wide gatherings, sense of community. Vertical housing (kids from different grades in same dorm). Good balance between personal responsibility and rules (no enforced study hours unless needed, no formal lights out time but adviser will check on you). Dining hall. Proximity to Concord. Great staff, responsive coach/teachers. Guide was ok. Still getting over the fact she asked if we knew what the humanities were…
EHS - well organized tours, great AO and staff, teachers/coaches were generous with their time, good athletic facilities, proximity to D.C., weekly tours to D.C., internships. Cons: I found it a bit too conservative for my taste. Guide was not into it.