So I just attended Tulane’s Honors Weekend with my D18. Well-run program, enjoyed it and D came away learning what she wanted to know to help her in her pending commitment decision. But that is not the point of my thread…
One of the sessions I attended was a Parent Panel which consisted of four mothers of current 2nd to 4th year students. The only students in the room were children of the panel, present to elaborate on any parental responses. I was extremely impressed with the parents (and the students). They were articulate, knowledgeable, candid and engaged. But again, not the point of my post…
One of the parents in the audience, an alum who graduated 30 years ago, asked the panel to discuss their opinion of Tulane’s reputation as a party school. Keep in mind that this was an event only for students admitted into the Honors Program, so the nerd factor at the event was relatively high and many parents in the room nodded in curiosity around this topic as well.
The panel consensus was that, while there are plenty of fun social opportunities available to students, they felt the “partying” was fairly typical of most colleges…those that want to engage in such activities do so, but it isn’t a dominant or pressured aspect of student life at Tulane. They felt that Tulane often gets painted with this brush because of it being located in New Orleans, a reputed “Party City”. But if you have ever visited Tulane, campus is not located in or around the French Quarter…it is uptown in an affluent residential area. There are a handful of restaurants and bars within walking distance which cater to students, but Bourbon Street is miles away (minimum of 20 mins from campus if driving, longer if taking the streetcar or when traffic clogs the streets of New Orleans which is so often the case).
Of course, this begs the question of what people mean when they ask about “partying”. During the bulk of the discussion, the assumption was that partying = heavy/excessive drinking. But we reached a point toward the end of our time when one of the students, a senior, could obviously no longer hold her tongue, apologized and began to speak up with conviction and a bit of emotion in her voice. She said she had grown tired of that characterization of Tulane. She had grown tired, upon telling someone where she went to college, of being asked “Isn’t that a party school?” She said…Tulane is in New Orleans, a city that celebrates everything. There is always a festival going on celebrating something…food, music, art, culture, diversity, etc… But those festivals and events are not focused on drinking…they are focused on whatever is being celebrated. There may be drinking involved, but that is not the focus. Because there is usually an event/festival occurring in the city, the students are presented with many different ways to spend their time away from studying (not to mention the museums, concerts, historical and cultural attractions where alcohol is not involved). They are not limited to socializing focused on drinking. She mentioned friends who went to some of the “middle of nowhere” colleges where there is not much to do socially except activities that tend to be centered around drinking. That became her friends’ main way to socialize away from the books…at Greek parties or in bars. Because of location there were not many other options for “having fun”. That situation, she said, should be far more concerning to a parent than having so many enriching options for finding a healthy balance. Tulane students’ default down-time activity is not drinking for the sake of drinking. There are too many other cool and fun things to do.
She closed by saying "So if you define “partying” as “celebrating things” and embracing the unique opportunities a historically and culturally distinct city like New Orleans affords students, then yes, Tulane is a party school.
We as parents all looked around at each other and said the same thing…“That was a good answer.” I know it made a whole lot of sense to me. Since this is a fairly frequent topic in the Tulane forum, I wanted to share for anyone who may have this concern.