<p>What compmom wrote mirrors my own thoughts pretty much. I realize with a crappy economy that is only slowly recovering and general anxiety, it can appear that music is a tenuous thing to study, kind of in line with ancient sandskrit as a major or something equally esoteric. In some ways people view college (not without reason) as a jobs training program, which with certain skills (engineering, comp sci, math, public accounting) is true, but for many jobs there really isn’t training in school for what the job requires (for example, a lot of the time, at least in my day, actuaries were math/statistics majors who trained on the job, not in school), and many liberal arts majors end up doing a variety of things. </p>
<p>I can tell you professionally that music majors (generally I am talking performance or composition) are well respected, because people know the dedication it takes, the kinds of skills, to go through music training (dealing with other musicians in a chamber group alone is worth a lot <em>lol</em>). , the discipline, and also that kids majoring in music other then maybe more then a few of the kids on solo instruments and their deluded teachers, know it is a grind, know how tough it is to make a living in it, and are doing it because they have dedication to it and love it, and that kind of thing is valuable to employees (the worst kind of employee I can tell you after 25 years, is the one who sees everything in terms of salary and compensation and everything they do is driven by that, rather then having dedication to what they do and let the rewards fall where they may; kind of like the doctor to whom you are a payment from an insurance company or another payment towards a luxury car versus the one who loves being a doctor). Plus music students have the reputation on the whole for being pretty bright (which is backed up by research), so that helps, too.</p>
<p>An undergrad degree in physics isn’t going to get you much (in physics), most of the people i knew with BA’s in sciences like physics who didn’t go on ended up doing things away from physics, lots of them end up in IT (because physics these days requires significant computer skills) or other non physicals fields…so there is no guarantee there. Even tech fields, supposedly recession proof and brilliant future, may not be…</p>
<p>I don’t know much about the horn world and a lot of this depends on how good you are, how dedicated you are. You could do what a lot of people do, study physics and find music opportunities as a non major, find a good private teacher, do orchestra and chamber if available, and then see where you are when you graduate (having a non BM degree as an undergrad doesn’t necessarily stop you from going to grad school on the instrument)… Given you are already in school, staying with what you are doing and pursuing music diligently may be easier…trying to get into a BM program may be difficult at this point, especially since they generalyl don’t have that many horn players in programs (unless they are disciples of Mahler, man that guy loved horns <em>lol</em>). I think you have choices, what you do is up to you…</p>
<p>This is something we all face, students and parents, my S is going into performance, it is prob going to cost us near full ride for 4 years, as much as a decent house in many places (fortunately, he won’t come out with debt if the god smile upon us), so it is scary, but if it is his passion, and he thinks about what he wants to do, all I can do is support him. He thinks all the time about the alternatives if music doesn’t work out, about possible things to do, which is healthy, but it also isn’t paralyzing him:)</p>