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<p>I think that’s the number one thing you should take away from these communications: that they’re enjoyable exchanges for their own sake and not because you hope that they’re a crystal ball offering up some sort of astral projection that there’s an Oberlin acceptance letter in your future.</p>
<p>Two final (and authoritative) notes from me on this point and how these communications fit into the big picture.</p>
<p>First, there’s this on-point overview from ElizabethHouston:</p>
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<p>and this observation from dave72:</p>
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<p>Good luck!</p>