<p>As this has been a very long year full of growth, lessons learned, and not a little anxiety trying to figure this whole process out, I wanted to share some of what we learned this year, and how that applies to some time honored myths that are always kicking around. It is my hope that this post will save some angst for next year! So here goes:</p>
<p>Myth #1: When you audition can determine whether you get in
For what it's worth, my D auditioned at two schools early action; one she got in and one she did not. She also auditioned in mid to late February for two schools; one she got in and one she did not. She also auditioned at a bunch of schools somewhere in the middle of the process. The timing of auditions did not seem to have any affect on whether or not she got in.</p>
<p>Myth #2: You can figure out whether someone got in by what happened in the audition room.
Quite simply, you cannot!! Try not to drive yourself crazy. Whether your child is worked with , barely spoken to, complimented generously, etc, has NO bearing on whether or not they will get in. My daughter got into schools where she was not worked with and she also got into schools where she was worked with, and she was rejected from schools where she was worked with. She was told in one audition that she was 'very very talented' and she did not get in. You cannot figure any of this stuff out so do not try, just do the auditions, celebrate whatever happened in the room and move on.</p>
<p>Myth #3: Thank you's are something that may help you get in.
Perhaps thank you's matter, perhaps they don't. In our case, for the schools that my daughter got into, she did not write a thank you. The school where the person handed her a business card during the audition, and my daughter promptly wrote a thank you--she did not get in. Again, you cannot figure any of it out.</p>
<p>Myth #4: If you audition at NYU Tisch and you are not asked what studio you are interested in during the interview, you are probably not getting in.</p>
<p>My daughter was not asked this question and she got in. I worried quite needlessly over the lack of this question during the interview. Again, you cannot figure any of this stuff out so probably best to resist trying. </p>
<p>Myth #5: BFA schools that separately admit your child academically will be a good safety, and BA schools that happen to have theater programs will also be good safeties.</p>
<p>Here's the thing about safeties: Your child has to want to go there to make it a true safety. Just because a school has a strong non-audition theater program doesn't mean your child will automatically love it. Make sure you visit and plan for safeties that your child can actually see themselves at. Regarding the academic acceptance fallback, some kids, if they are rejected artistically from a school, may be turned off from that school and not want to consider going there for something else. And this may not show itself until after the rejections come in. In which case that school is no longer a safety. Know your child and know your safeties well! It will make this process a lot less stressful to have very good safeties lined up while you are waiting to hear from the audition programs. </p>
<p>That's all for now! Good luck to all planning for this next year!</p>