<p>How is the guidance counselor at your school? Even at our school, which is not the greatest, my kids worked this kind of thing out with the guidance office. They certainly came home and discussed it with me, and I would sometimes talk with guidance or go with them in the first year of high school, but your daughter-and you-should be able to go in now and talk with guidance folks about questions.</p>
<p>Some of the answers depend on your particular high school. For instance, our high school does not have very many AP classes, and the first year anyone takes them is 11th grade.</p>
<p>The first year of high school brings many stresses, so starting with a lighter load might be smart. This might mean not taking all honors classes, but taking classes in the recommended sequence so that honors classes can be picked up later.</p>
<p>Generally, math needs to be through Algebra II for graduation at our school, and most colleges want this too. But if a kid is not a math person, Algebra II is fine. Three years of language is generally fine too, but perhaps senior year would be the time not to take that class, because the college application process takes time.</p>
<p>If you kid is into theater and animals, as you said, then I would also strongly recommend keeping academic rigor down if, as it sounds, your daughter is a slow worker and therefore has trouble combining extracurriculars and academics. In hindsight, the best thing I did for my kids (without feeling sure of myself at all at the time) was helping them strategize to keep those extracurricular interests growing.</p>
<p>There are lots of colleges out there that your daughter can go to without undue stress in high school. I would avoid talking much about it at all, other than to make sure she does an adequate college prep curriculum, which, again, guidance will ensure. Things will work out fine.</p>