<p>JUST TO CLARIFY: when I said “I’d been in the same situation,” I meant that I’d met a couple of people who were really arrogant or show-offs. While I admit to perpetrating a couple of ego-boosting moments myself, I’m the type of person who keeps her accomplishments to herself because I get embarrassed when people talk about me. :P</p>
<p>Anyways, here’s one experience I’ve had:</p>
<p>Two years ago, when I was a sophomore, there was this senior, N, in my Creative Writing class. He was the definition of a prodigy–a literary genius. I have never met a more brilliant, more eloquent writer than he was. Since I was his junior, I wanted to be as good as him and looked up to him as an older brother. </p>
<p>Whenever I ranted about college (“I’m hopeless, I’ll never get in anywhere”), he always made fun of me, saying, “you worry too much” or “look at me, senior year I’m smooth sailing–and you just watch me I’ll get into Berkeley.” It never made sense to me how he could be so certain and laid-back, when here I am pulling hairs over whether I’d get admitted anywhere or not. Nevertheless, I was also certain that with his unparalleled writing skills, he could write a really good personal statement, which made him a “shoo-in” to me.</p>
<p>And when admissions decisions came, he didn’t get into UC Berkeley–nor any of the top schools he applied to, for that matter. The only university that accepted him was UC Irvine. However, he considered himself “too good” for UC Irvine, so to the dismay of everyone around him he decided to attend the local community college then transfer to Berkeley. </p>
<p>I thought that was a pretty stupid move. If he goes to the local community college with a bunch of drop-outs from my high school all over again instead of the university where there would at least be some sort of rigor, I could only predict that he would only feel a grave insult to his intelligence. Moreover, he could probably have an easier time transferring between UCs. Whenever I think about him, half of me wants to gloat and say, “I TOLD YOU SO!” and half of me just feels sorry for so much lost potential. One thing I learned, though: good thing I had never listened to him.</p>