<p>Zal, my D got on the Priority Waitlist as well. If I recall, you do not need to put ANY money down NOW. What you are agreeing to, unlike a regular waitlist, is that if you are called with an acceptance, you would need to accept with a deposit within 24 hours of notification, so it is not like you would be able to mull it over at that juncture. So, if you get in from the Priority Waitlist, be prepared to accept immediately or not. So, think about that ahead of time. All you are doing now is saying you want to be on the Priority Waitlist. You aren't sending money, nor signing on the dotted line, so to speak. But if that offer comes, your intentions should be well thought out as you'd have to put the deposit down immediately at that point.</p>
<p>I suppose at ANY school, once you put a deposit down, you can back out and lose the deposit, theoretically. The commitment is not quite like the binding contract that an ED thing is. People do it and they are not sued and then others on the waitlist fill those slots. That is often referred to as "summer melt". However, that said, ethically, one should only put deposits down if planning to attend because it is not fair to those on the waitlist. (Everyone should be sensitive to that, particularly those who are on waitlists themselves who would not want someone to hold a spot that they did not intend to fill.) So, for CMU, you don't need to put money down now but think long and hard so that if that call comes to get off the waitlist, THEN you would have to commit with a deposit at that time without lots of time to "decide". At THAT point, you'd truly be making a commitment that you should keep.</p>
<p>Most schools do not have this "Priority Waitlist" designation like CMU has. At other schools, if someone gets off a waitlist, they get a little time to decide whether or not to accept the spot. What CMU seems to be doing is ascertaining who on their waitlist is seriously wanting to attend and would be ready to commit to attend with 24 hours notice of a deposit being due. Other schools often just ask students who are put on waitlists if they wish to stay on it or not. This school has a two tiered waitlist with those who are saying, yes, I would attend if a spot opens up and would agree to put $500 down in 24 hours if that happens and those who are not ready to commit to attend in such a time frame. I think the bigger commitment and the one you ethically should uphold is the one when and if a call comes and you put $500 down to hold your spot. Right now you are not putting any money down.</p>
<p>Zal, the short version of what I just wrote is....IF you get in and then put $500 down, you SHOULD commit to attend. After that point, there should not be a turning back. I don't feel you are quite at that juncture now but should think seriously about what you would do should that call come and you have 24 hours notice.</p>
<p>Susan</p>