<p>Well, JandJ, that’s a shame. It’s too bad airplanes are too full to offer bereavement any longer.</p>
<p>Well, how about this, then…</p>
<p>I am a frequent flyer and my husband is an even more, weekly, frequent flyer. We get all sorts of merit aid for this. And, yes, they do care more about him than they do about me, and they care more about me than they do about the youngest who has less miles than me since she hasn’t started to fly back and forth from school. etc…</p>
<p>He is the big donor and I’m the little donor. </p>
<p>But, we’ve also got all sorts of prices in between and if you are willing to look on some of those websites they have, you can get really good deals, or so my oldest, the compuslive shopper would tell you.</p>
<p>And then, I suppose, there are those who have to take the train or go by car. </p>
<p>In the end, though, we all get there.</p>
<p>But, and this is material to the actual conversation, anybody who resents financial aid for the pell eligible has no real foresight. If you think in a country with a decreasing population you will be better off aging with a less educated and not a more educated population, you are not thinking it through. In the end, compassion and the wish for all to do well aside, we would be much better off if we had a system in place in which those entitled to Pell were asked only to pay that amount to attend college.</p>
<p>All of us will be better off, including the big donors, who all, mostly, happen to KNOW this, btw.</p>