<p>Okay. So my friend, I've known her for about 3 years, she is a friend. She asks me on AIM If I am going to prom, I said if I can find a date in time I will. She says shes not going because she wants a date, she doesn't want to be a loner during the slow songs. Then she left pretty quick. I can't tell if she wanted me to ask her to the prom or not, probably not. I would like to ask her, but I'm afraid that would be really weird. Should I just ask her to go with me as "friends"? That would only half solve the slow song problem. I don't know what to do its all akward, I mean I really would like to take her, but I in no way want to hurt our good friendship.</p>
<p>I think its better if friends go to the prom... just have fun that night, don't worry about dates!!!</p>
<p>So what do i do</p>
<p>ask her...</p>
<p>she wanted you to ask, you big dope!!! its not to late call her, say you are an idiot, don't let her stew all night....say you were nervous to ask her!!!</p>
<p>SECONDED. Go for it, buddy. Well, as long as there isnt someone else you wanna go with more...</p>
<p>damn yall were wrong</p>
<p>lol, she asked me if i was sure that i wanted to waste my date on her, i think that means she doesn't want to go as my date.</p>
<p>ok, she said "well, if i do decide to go, then yeah i'll go with you, lol if you find someone better to take you can drop me, i'd totally understand lol" <<< ouch</p>
<p>ummm ur friend seems insecure and unsure of herself lol. but im sure she is saying that just cuz she thinks u feel bad for her</p>
<p>Possibly, I don't know. Normally if you wanted to go to the person you would say sure ill go you wouldn't say "if i do decide to go". So im guessing she didn't want me to ask in the first place. Well this is great :|</p>
<p>She wants to go with you and you need to say YOU WANT TO GO WITH HER....she is giving you an out in case you felt pressured to ask her....say you are glad you are going together it will be fun and that you aren't going to back out on her!!!! She wants some reassurance from you....</p>
<p>Jeesh, sometimes guys just are as thick as boards...shrek is right, she is a bit insecure and isn't real good with guys...have you noticed that? Be honest, and say you want a bit more of a commitment, because you do want to go to the prom, and with her, but she needs to make up her mind. Do it nicely, but that is fair.</p>
<p>Wow, really? I mean, I said I wanted to go with her. I mean cmon, she doesn't need to contemplate, I already told her yes i would like to go with u, and she was like "If I decide to go I'll tell you" <<<<does that not mean she doesn't wanna go w/ me?</p>
<p>lol, this thread is cute. citygirlsmom is right on the money. hope prom goes great for you.</p>
<p>lol yeah it is cute. You asked her to go to the prom with you on 'im'??</p>
<p>Oh dear, if you asked her online, asking her again in person to really affirm it would just be best. No one likes to be asked out on AIM.</p>
<p>ask her, fool!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p>yeah asking online is pretty lame. Do it in person to make it official.</p>
<p>Yeah I'll ask her again and say something like "hey so how do u feel about going to prom do u wanna go" or something. Yeah i guess im an idiot I should have talked to her in person, I just thought she was asking me to go online.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the advice</p>