<p>depends on how bad the movie is.</p>
<p>actually if the guy was desperate...he'd just go and beg or something. good video = creative.</p>
<p>I agree with asking the girl you were planning to. As far as the video goes, it depends on what kind of person she is. I was asked out in front of a group once and it was really, really odd. I said no because the guy didn't know me well enough to realize that I hate being the center of attention with a fiery passion. This made the situation even more awkward because he was fairly confident I would say yes. But the video is very creative idea ;)</p>
<p>prom drama = prama </p>
<p>That's right...the term has been coined.</p>
<p>Prom is overrated.</p>
<p>well in my esteemed opinion, I'm going to advice you to look at this whole girl situation in a similar fashion to your upcoming college app process.</p>
<p>If you can't come up with the courage to just be a man and talk to the girl, you are NOT getting "in" anywhere.</p>
<p>have a nice life. oh and um always keep a "safety" in mind.</p>
<p>slurpz...are you a guy or a girl?</p>
<p>LOL @ merudh! Keep a "safety." That's classic!</p>
<p>slurpz is a guy.</p>
<p>Slurpz is no longer allowed to comment on how the mind of a woman works. I am the only one allowed as I have previously proved my expertise.</p>
<p>Where have you proven your expertise? You have not posted any advice yet.</p>
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<p>Here's my thing, though. I never do anything the normal, easy way. I am the guy who is always doing something out there, something totally stupid but totally worth it. Sophomore year, I got up at the Pep-Fest before Silverbelle and sang "Milkshake" in front of the school as part of the game they had for Silverbelle royalty. This girl who I'm thinking of asking flat out told me at Silverbelle this year that one of the reasons she asked me was because of my carefree adventurous nature. Also, she asked me in a creative way, so now if I don't do something at least semi-cool I'll feel bad. I understand, as so many have pointed out, that it can be awkward to be asked in front of a group. However, if I'm not putting myself out there, then I'm being fake, and I'm not cool with being fake.</p>
<p>just ask the other girl privately.
that way your friend doesn't see your movie.</p>
<p>who else wants to see this kid ask, and get rejected, PUBLICLY PWNED OMG ROTFL DVD!!11</p>
<p>ok. well your "friend" said no. So, that give you the go-ahead to ask out your crush or however you describe her via the video. If one of them is under the impression that you're going to ask her (as in, you've hinted at it and it's considered a for-sure thing), then you should probably take that one. But, it seems as if you haven't committed yourself to either of them, which is good. So, I think it's for you to decide - who do you like more? who's hotter? I don't know what matters more, as I'm a girl.</p>
<p>Also - of you think asking out the one girl via video would hurt your "friend's" feelings or make her seem somewhat unimportant, I wouldn't ask out the girl so publically. Instead, make it more casual and discreet, so it's not thrown in your "friend's" face.</p>
<p>PS- I only use "" with the friend because I'm not really sure what your status is with her.</p>
<p>The End-- I think your comment was rather pejorative and most hurtful. Appology is needed.</p>
<p>Actually, it was hysterical and I, for one, would like to see the rejection video-taped.</p>
<p>But really, good luck man...let us know what happens?</p>
<p>what's all this fuss about asking? I just popped the question, he said yes, end of story. :D</p>
<p>Some people are not as confident as you, purrli. And you are female, so there is no problem.
There is a cheese for every cheesecloth, but not necessarily a cheesecloth for every cheese.</p>
<p>yeah, do both in privacy. I don't think girls like to get asked out in front of the class. Ask the better one out first. The one you prefer to go out with.</p>
<p>^I agree: doing it in public can be either very dramatic (if it went well) or extremely embarassing (if didn't turn out so). Wouldn't it be easier to go with a friend than someone you like but would feel awkward to even approach?</p>
<p>I thought it's harder for girls to ask, because guys are usually really stubborn about who they have in mind and can be brutal. I have a friend who was once turned down by a "Oh I am going to ask [another girl] first and see how it goes"...</p>
<p>Actually what I meant by "fuss" was whether the act of acquiring a date is supposed to be accompanied by roses and wine and pomp and circumstance? On the other issue, I was tipped off beforehand of his intentions, so it wasn't exactly a matter of confidence :).</p>
<p>OK, I semi-listened to you guys. I toned it down and made a powerpoint instead. I went with the girl who I was originally going to ask, my friend is cool with it, and the girl I asked said yes.</p>
<p>hmm
......good job</p>