<p>Steve… I took that approach at the beginning of this year… thought it might work better if she knew I wasn’t going to “hover”. She got even worse…one month into school and we are having parent teacher student meeting to discuss the 19 not handed in (NHI) homework assignments! So I’m going back into ‘hover’ mode for the rest of this semester. I know eventually she’ll figure it out, but it’s like watching a trainwreck. I keep hoping that she’ll get back on track before she crashes and burns. Oh well, if I don’t kill her, she’ll only get stronger. or something like that :)</p>