<p>The problem OP is that your D is not ready to go away to college. While you can “hover” for senior year, you will not be able to hover when she is a few hundred miles away. Crashing in burning in college is not a good plan.</p>
<p>If ‘going away’ is what she truly desires, put the onus on her to step up her game to prove that she is ready, willing and able to make the personal sacrifices to succeed in all subjects.</p>