<p>honestly, it sounds like you want a school that’s smaller and more traditional.</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong, I loved NU and would 100% go back. I have great friends from college, I have tons of wonderful memories from there, and am now a grad student at a great school, where I feel just as prepared and experienced (if not more!) than the other students in my program. Overall, it was a great experience.</p>
<p>But Northeastern is not traditional. We are all about being in a cool city, getting cool jobs, going off into the world, etc etc, it’s a little more practically and career-minded than other colleges. And we definitely love campus and being at school, and we do all the normal college stuff too-- we join clubs and sports teams, we make friends in the dorms and in class and at parties, when it’s warm we play frisbee or gossip while drinking iced coffee in the quads, we have hungover breakfasts at the dining hall, we play too much flip cup, we do marathon study sessions during finals and consume too much redbull. But we’re also excited about the world outside our campus, and Northeastern is just our home-base to branch out to other things–why stick around 24/7 if you have a big city to play in?</p>
<p>I’m not SUPER involved in alumni stuff, and that seems to be the general attitude among my NU friends. I love going back to visit Boston, but I don’t have much reason to go back to campus. There’s an alumni network in the city where I live, and we’ll occasionally have Happy Hour events and such, but it’s always pretty casual. As for donating, we’ll see how I feel once I’m not getting paid Grad stipend wages while cringing at the thought of paying my student loans… for now I’ll continue to begrudgingly give my $20.11 once a year.</p>
<p>$$, I suspect NU will continue getting bigger donations in the coming years, since the school has only recently really come into its own. </p>
<p>My friends from more traditional schools do tend to have more school spirit and are maybe a little more involved in alumni stuff. If you’re really looking for a close-knit community, like your questions suggest, TomSr might be right, a big urban university might not be what you’re looking for.</p>