@OHMomof2
I am very happy with my results, but considering I helped my best friend, who is also first gen but didn’t know much about college and wanted to go to the college in our city (which is an awful college), apply to great colleges like Emory and Rice and he got in where I didn’t is a little unfair. Even he agreed that it’s weird that a student with a pretty bad work ethic, which is evident through grades and scores, got in without any hooks (under than being a URM) like there was nothing special abt ECs (just some school clubs like Spanish club, etc) and no leadership and the essays were poorly written at first and I was the one who edited them to make them a little better. So yes, I don’t know the applications of all the people at my school, but I did know the applications of my best friends. I had many people ask me questions about the college process at my high school because I’m valedictorian and because at my high school, the counselors aren’t very helpful.
I don’t know how to explain it bc I did get into great schools, and I’m very happy but I guess my question was more for specific schools like the schools that rejected me but accepted my friends (which shocked everyone at our school - teachers, the kids themselves, the parents (not just mine))
and I said no one from my high school got into ivy leagues, but in that quote I said people I am surrounded by, because I still know people going to the ivies!
And, lastly:
“you do NOT know that’s why they got in. There is no way to know.”
yes, this is a point I emphasized many times. I’m not even against AA! I’m just confused? I do not think that anyone who got in was so terrible that they didn’t deserve it. I mean yes my best friend who got into great schools is sorta weird, but the people who get into ivies definitely deserve it.
I’m just saying… us asians get a lot of heat for just being asian… and that’s not fair! It should be changed to where affirmative action helps anyone who is of low socioeconomic status… or the power of a legacy/AA should be decreased!
I do think that if I had written my essays about some of the hardships I went through, I could have gotten into better schools because admissions officers would have been able to see more clearly about my life and would have realized how hard I have worked and how I am different than asians who have doctors as parents or just go to better science/math schools. Yes, that’s my fault about writing my essays not on this, but I didn’t know that I should have. Everyone that writes about their hardships or family struggles, it always seemed weird to me. Even when my other chose to write about her getting bullied in middle school (nothing even severe, I was still great friends with her at the time), I didn’t think that was a good topic (It wasn’t a bad one bc that got her into some pretty awesome schools even though she’s not a great writer)
I thought it was more important to write about your passions and unique topics.
I guess I just seem like I’m complaining but if i knew what I know now, I would have done a couple things differently, and emphasized hardships to stand out