<p>The OP sounds as if he/she is in a similar field to my D: Econ. Perfect GRE Q virtually required, Verbal of not much consequence, NSF app but no interviews. If that’s the field, I’ve been lurking and watching admissions results in the field and have a pretty good idea of the patterns in general. One note, as good as a 3.7 GPA is, it’s on the lowish end for results in Top 20 and certainly Top 10 programs.</p>
<p>LACOp, your reason re Safeties is sound but is one-size-fits-all. Safeties can and do exist, which is the original point. Whether it behooves one to then pass it up is another and whether the school may be cagey with funding until you commit is another. Option at branch point. There can be circumstances that are undreamt of in your philosophy that can make the choice valid. All that said, if my D had gotten in to only her Safety, my hope would have been that she would drop back 20 and punt, giving it another shot next year; I would have given this opinion only if she had asked me and on that I can never tell…</p>
<p>GB. you’re complaining to the right person. Back in 2002 (ignore the Oct 2004 start date in my profile, that’s for the “new” CC, the “Classic” one can still be accessed…see the small type at the bottom of this web page), I started the habit on CC, though not the DS/DD, or DH/DW (ack, ptui!) which came later. </p>
<p>The rocks were still cooling and there were fewer than 50K posts total at the time and there was just one board with many topics. Separate Grad school forum, even top Ivy and top LAC fora, had not been conceived. No Cafes. </p>
<p>For some posts, I cut-and-paste from e-mails I’d been sending to various people talking about my daughter’s process. Some of them were worth re-posting here. Rather than abbreviate her name with an “E” for Esmerelda, I thought I’d be clever and substitute a “D,” letting people think it was short for Daphne.</p>
<p>Well, folks somehow caught on…as in, I forgot to make the switch in a couple of usages…that D wasn’t short for Daphne at which point I confessed that it was short for “Daughter.” Other posters started using S for son and the rest is history. So you can blame me.</p>
<p>I think the original “dear daughter” or “dear husband” (the latter may have been the first, actually) was sarcastic. But it caught on too. But you can’t blame me for that.</p>