<p>mamalot,</p>
<p>Congratulations to your S on his audition. I am the mother of two Ss who are juniors at Webster.</p>
<p>Viterbo is in LaCrosse, WI. My Ss have friends in their program. My youngest son goes to Univesity Wisconsin-LaCrosse. Very scenic with the bluffs and Mississippi.</p>
<p>Break a leg at the other auditions....:)</p>
<p>SUE aka 5pants</p>
<p>My D's vocal teacher advised her to apply to 5 schools; she thought that would be more than enough and keep us sane. Thank goodness we did not take her advise this ONE time (she always gives good advise). My d applied to 7 "Big schools" - 2 "moderate" schools (reputable programs) that do offer a senior showcase - and 2 "in-state" (solid programs) that have offered her full scholarships. She, of course wants to go out of state. She seems confident that she is going to find the right fit. We have come across MT's that applied to over 20 programs to increase their chances of getting in. We knew that it was competitive, but we did not expect this insanity! My daughter has expressed an interest in re-auditioning for her favorites next year (if she does not get into one of those programs this year). How do "transfers" work with these programs. Do students have success going that route?<br>
Sarahsmom - good luck to your "d" - My d has two auditions this weekend and she is excited about them. Keep the faith.</p>
<p>I have to tell all of you that I am so very proud of my d. She so far has 2 rejections, 1 deferred, has auditioned at Syracuse, in Chicago this week CCM, CMU, this weekend FSU, next weekend BOCO, and then lastly Shenandoah. But, that is not why I am so very proud. She thought her two auditions went very well in Chicago however, she said she could tell that she was just not what they were looking for at that school and it was okay. She still felt good about the auditions. </p>
<p>Well, then she went to see "Wicked" Tuesday night and absolutely LOVED it. Her dad surprised her with tickets. Anyway, Wednesday morning she called me (I wasnt' with her) and she said how unbelievable the voices were in the show, so strong and clear. And, some day, that will be me mom! She then proceeded to tell me "mom, if I don't get into any of these schools this year, I'm just going to work on my voice because I think that is my biggest hurdle and I will go through the whole audition process again next year!" She said, " I know I can do this and no one will convince me that I can't". I will just work harder and get better and then those same schools that reject me this year, will be happy to have me next year"</p>
<p>So, even though I know it hurts her and Kills me for her, I am just so proud of her whole attitude right now. I couldn't feel more blessed. It just goes to show how much she wants this and how important it is to her. She knows what rejection is but won't let it defeat her. </p>
<p>So, for all you parents that are really hurting inside for your kids, remember sometimes they are much stronger then we either think or give them credit for. A lot of them, from auditioning for shows, competing in dance competitions, vocal competitions, etc. have really gotten a feel for rejection (never easy but always a possibility) and still want this career anyway. </p>
<p>At this point then, we as parents know they are ready to spread their wings and fly. Isn't that really our goal for our children. We try to raise them to be strong, considerate, well grounded motivated, and independant young people.</p>
<p>So, no matter what life hands them we just need to be there to support and love them. Because really, there is nothing better then having the love of your family.</p>
<p>cindystamps4u</p>
<p>Cindy, I can see why you are so proud of your d. She sounds like an amazing woman. With that quality, you know she will be successful. I feel for all of you parents -this is such a difficult process (more for us I think). My d is now a freshman at Elon but I remember quite well all the waiting. Best wishes to your d and take a deep breath - all work work out!!</p>
<p>lexismom</p>
<p>cindystamps4u, you <em>should</em> be proud of your daughter. What a fabulous attitude! Tell her that we all are rooting for her ...</p>
<p>cindystamps4u, Yes you really should be proud of your daughter, I feel rpoud of your daughter and i dont even know her. wow, I hope that the rest of her auditions goes well, she has such a good spirit and attitude, and im wishing that i could have that attitude. its just for me, if i dont in anywhere this year (of even if i dont get into a good enough school) i dont think my parents are going to allow me to audition next year, cause they will assume im not good enough and thats it, the end of the road. Your daughter is going to go so far, and let her know that everybody is rooting for her, and I really hope that everything works out :-).</p>
<p>Lesmis777,</p>
<p>My daughter is doing exactly what you are considering. She auditioned at, I believe, 7 schools last year and was accepted at PPU and is currently attending as a freshman. Overall she is happy with the PPU MT program, but still wanted to take a second shot at her top choices from last year. So, she is in the process of re-auditioning at 4 schools, CCM, UofM and Ithaca all of which she auditioned at last year, and B-W whichl last year she did not realize had such an outstanding program and decided to audition there this year.</p>
<p>Here is what we have learned going through it a second time.</p>
<p>1) Both CCM and B-W said she would have to start over as a freshman. In fact, at both universities, during the audition process she was asked about her willingness to start over. I expect the same from the others, so plan on an extra year of college.</p>
<p>2) The odds of getting in do not get any better.</p>
<p>3) My D schedule at PPU is very demanding and therefore it has been difficult to schedule the auditions and do the necessary preparation. Your Daughter will need to be very disciplined.</p>
<p>4) The good news is we have found this year to be a much more positive experience. First, my D is soooo much more confident in herself and her talent. Second, She is much more relaxed and actually stated that she has finally learned to enjoy the audition process. Finally, the work she has done at PPU is paying off, she has improved in dance, acting and vocally.</p>
<p>5) As parents it has been much easier, especially the fact that we know she is in a very good program at PPU and that if she does not get into one of the 4 schools she still will get a good start to her professional career. </p>
<p>6) Finally, for all of us just knowing the "routine" at each school and what to expect makes life much easier.</p>
<p>I hope this helps.</p>
<p>Kaylagurl</p>
<p>My daughter remembered you at the CMU auditions in Chicago. She said she sat with you and chatted a bit. She is real short, long brunette curly hair. Do you remember her? Anyway, she said you seemed like such a nice person! </p>
<p>Anyway, thank you and thank all the rest of you for the nice words. Just like I said, this is a tough time but somehow, the kids and the parents get through it with just a few bumps and bruises. Good things come to those that do good things for others so I am sure in a few months, we will all have something wonderful to report even if it doesn't come with MT attached to it. Good luck again to all out there trying so hard and blessing to those parents out there that are struggling with me!</p>
<p>Hi All,</p>
<pre><code> We just returned from Elon. What a wonderful experience! The first thing that the kids did was observe an acting class. D was transformed & couldn't wait to get started with her audition! She said that the students in the class were amazing and she loved the instructor. The entire day went really well and as we left for the airport she said "I have a really good feeling about this school, mom. More than any of the other schools, I can really see myself here." She got some great feed back from the students that were helping w/ the auditions and at a performance last night, the acting adjudicator sat behind us. He introduced himself and congradulated my D on a job well done at her audition! He chatted w/her for several minutes. (I was having a hard time sitting still and not squealing with excitement!!!)
D had three to go, BoCo, U Hartford and Penn State. The rejection letter was a drag, but onward we go and hopefully she will be rejoicing in another month or two! Thanks for the support!
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<p>Cindystamps, a remarkable d.
Our son is getting downhearted in general.
One general issue: He's turned down the chance to audition for a school NOT renowned for its theatre program but which HAS a BFA and has offered him a full ride (sort of like, scouting)?
Isn't that sort of cutting off your nose? Or is it better to go to NO school than got a school you don't think you'll like?</p>
<p>I do remember her cindystamps! :-) and sarahsmom congrats on your daughter's audition :-), it sounds like it went really well :-)</p>
<p>Re:</p>
<p>"any Webster folk out there?
The director was REALLY NICE, and our s. had prepared a tape for him to take back with him but he said that was necessary only if the auditor was NOT the director (s. thought it meant, don't bother, son)."</p>
<p>which you posted earlier. </p>
<p>Tell s. don't be pessimistic! The music director DOES NOT attend all the unified & regional auditions. If it's a location where he attends (and accompanies on piano) the kid DOES NOT have to submit a tape! Not needing to give them a tape doesn't mean "don't bother" :)</p>
<p>Good luck to your son (the waiting's the hard part)!</p>
<p>Thank you. But it was Byron??? the music direction who is retiring next year, an elderly and very nice man.....Thank you for all your wishes, and let me say sorry for popping in and out an note being as consistent as some of the other parents. I've had a baby in the hospital in the midst of all this and know that I send congratulation and consolations and hope to everyone. I just don't have fast enough fingers to say it all!!!!</p>
<p>THOSE are very wise words......
My s reminded me yesterday that this is just the beginning.</p>
<p>mamalot,</p>
<pre><code>Some programs don't allow transfers. One reason may be that they want to have control over the specific training progression. At Ithaca for example, freshman spend the first year learning the tech. side of theatre. They take some gen. ed. courses as well. Transfer students would not be in the same progression as the other sophomores. Many private schools do not allow the transfer of credit from other programs in any field. They want your money, and they don't necessarily feel that other schools have the same standards etc. It would be good to find out which schools allow students to transfer credit and which do not. Some may allow gen. ed courses, but not those within the MT major. My D is planning to cross that bridge is she comes to it. Right now, she's still got a couple of auditions to do and wants to stay positive.
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<p>Just got my first rejection from CCM. It was expected since I didn't think I had a very good audition =/ and I've also come to terms with my field.</p>
<p>But I gots an idea!</p>
<p>I think I'm going to keep all of my rejection letters as well as acceptances, just so when I'm older and a big famous Broadway star, I can look back and see what I overcame :P</p>
<p>I'm sorry to hear about your rejection from CCM Chris, but yes, when you do get to broadway if would be good to lookback and see what youve overcome :-)...
Did you get your letter in the mail? or did they e-mail you? cause you auditioned at NYC unifieds right?</p>
<p>Sorry to hear that, and hope for the best for you. I think my D was there on Sunday, too.</p>
<p>yes..i love your D tashmu! :-)</p>
<p>Hi kayla, I know she was very fond of you, too! Good luck and crosyafingas!</p>