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<p>But why shouldn’t I? (Or any family who is similarly situated and able to pay) I mean, what else am I going to spend my money on? Fur coats? Jewelry? Artwork for the walls? Watch it grow in the bank? That’s one of the two main reasons that H and I personally work so hard – for our children’s college, and our own retirement. </p>
<p>We both went to school full freight and we appreciated it tremendously and were incredibly thankful for the great gift of education. Are you sure you are not jealous of your cousin for having opportunities that are easier for her than for you, for not having to work the way you will have to? (And make no mistake - I think it’s great that you are so driven and you will undoubtedly go quite far with your work ethic and wish you nothing but luck.)</p>