Re: too many college credits while in HS - Pomona has such a policy, but it’s somewhat tricky to interpret. AP doesn’t count. College courses taken in lieu of HS courses don’t count. But yes, if DS accumulates more than a year of college credit before he graduates HS, he would need to apply to Pomona as a transfer student instead of as an entering freshman.
The reason this is tricky is that interpretation of what does or doesn’t replace a high school class is a gray area. Example - if S takes Japanese 202, that exceeds his 2 year HS language requirement. Does that class then count against him for 1 year of college credit? We’re not sure. Pomona has recently redesigned their website, so I can no longer find the page where this restriction is laid out.
Re: general parenting philosophy - we think S should have ample time to do things like sleep, run on the beach, watch some Dr. Who and play a little Minecraft each week. When he’s taking a full complement of rigorous HS classes, plus a college class, plus his ECs and volunteer activities (all of which are his own choices), then we support him in making an ROI-based decision not to do add’l self-study for that AP test. Could he have done it? Sure, but it would have meant giving up something, and the long-term value of a 5 vs a 4 wasn’t there for him.
In the aggregate, there’s a chance that a history of making similar choices will rule out MD as a career option. If that happens, it’s not a bad thing. It simply means that ability aside, he’s not willing to make the necessary sacrifices. We’d rather he learn that in HS or undergrad rather than 2 years into med school, a residency or private practice.
There was a reason he took that test cold, and it was a reason we agreed with: he wanted to gauge the amount of effort required to get a certain score. Now he knows. He’s also got something of an experimental mindset - he took the exact class for which the test was supposed to be a proxy. Taking the test cold, for him, was a validity test* of the entire AP concept. While some might think that’s a peculiar reason to take an AP test, I can tell you that for my particular kid, the success of that experiment went a heck of a long way toward getting buy-in for future AP tests.
*Kid says there were some questions on the AP test where the relevant material was not covered in the college class, but that the college class also covered stuff that wasn’t on the AP test. He sees it as an alignment issue, not a quality issue for the college class. At his HS, AP Psych is for juniors, and he didn’t want to wait two years. Now he can take Physiological and Abnormal Psych at the CC, both of which fall under the heading of keeping him engaged in learning. Yes, he may have to retake the more advanced classes at his undergrad. He knows that, and is willing to take the risk.