My child is very interesting in a school with strong science and strong music . Junior with SATs of 1540. SAT II math and physics both 800, etc. Solid GPA, courses and extracurriculars, especially in music. At what is widely considered to be the top public STEM magnet in the US. He also does a lot of extracurriculars and is always busy. So, we were excited to see that U Rochester had interviews and tours available over Memorial Day weekend. He signed up for a full slate of activities on Memorial Day, and contacted a professor in his area of interest to schedule a meeting.
Once everything was confirmed by email, I waited a week and booked non-refundable airline tickets for him and a parent. Two weeks later, Rochester sent him a brief email saying they had decided to shut down over Memorial Day and were cancelling on him. They sent this email to my kid, who was traveling over spring break, and did not cc not me. So, it was a week before I found out.
I called Rochester admissions, spoke to an actual adult admissions director (not a kid/ intern), and explained the situation, including the fact we had paid of airline tickets after a confirmation from the school. I asked if they could give us info to do a self guided tour, if there might be a student on campus who could meet with us, if there was an alum in the area, my kid could interview with, etc. And was told, basically, shrug sorry, not sorry. And that the campus would be closed and buildings locked for the holiday. And if security found us walking around, we would be removed for trespassing.
The admissions person I talked to said she would see if anyone would be around, and call me back if they were. Otherwise, don’t bother coming. That was a week ago, and I haven’t heard back. Honestly, given that we are coming from some distance, my kid is a strong, serious applicant, and this was their screw up, I would expect them to arrange something. Or at least apologize.
So, now I have expensive tickets to Rochester, and apparently can’t even explore the campus with my kid.
Has anyone run into something like this? We have found every other college we visited easy to work with, helpful and accommodating. Rochester could not have been ruder or less interested. They said it was my fault for scheduling over Memorial Day— BUT I WAS ABLE to register on their website for a full day of tour, interview, financial aid session, etc.
My kid will clearly not apply to Rochester given that this is how they treat applicants.