Say it here cause you can't say it directly- the get it off your chest thread (Part 1)

<p>You are such a ****! Leave me alone! I will clean the house in my own way on my timetable!</p>

<p>Get out of bed and get packing!</p>

<p>To the dinner guest who is coming tonight, along with four other couples: If you only talk about your son as if heā€™s the second coming, Iā€™m going to pick up a sharp knife and throw it at you. We all have children, we all think theyā€™re wonderful, and ā€“ while your kid is OK ā€“ heā€™s not the greatest person to ever walk the face of the earth. Canā€™t you talk about something else for a while?? Canā€™t you ooo and ahhh at someone elseā€™s kidā€™s accomplishments?</p>

<p>Ditto post #1982. That plane is going to leave on schedule tomorrow and you WILL be on it, whether your bags are packed or not! And trust me, I will take my sweet time shipping stuff to you :mad:</p>

<p>I am incredibly sad that I will not be moving you any where this fall.</p>

<p>I canā€™t manage everyoneā€™s emotions. Iā€™m going to do whatā€™s best for us.</p>

<p>Dear lady at the end of the pew: I am glad that you are attending Mass and that you are trying to raise your children right. I know itā€™s hard getting everyone out of bed on Sunday morning, get everyone dressed and get to church on time. But can you please pay more attention to your toddler so that heā€™s not looking for attention from us? Surely you MUST have seen the way he was poking my sonā€™s arm repeatedly and was squealing so loudly no one could hear. You acted like he didnā€™t exist! I noticed when your husband put him in his lap he settled right down. I felt like such a snark giving you dirty looks, but I was really hoping you would catch on!!!</p>

<p>Why canā€™t you just do it? And shut up?</p>

<p>Please give me the strength to get through this process without succumbing to a nervous breakdownā€¦let me get past the curiosity (read: judgement) of others and accept that wherever my kid ends up is just fine.</p>

<p>Stop ignoring me. T wrote that stuff on the table as a joke, but he HAD to have put it there for a reason. I liked you, you liked me, what was the problem? Why did you disappear off the face of the earth? Everything was going well up until you got all defensive because youā€™re too practical and shy to put your emotions out on the table (literally). We could have been friends, but you blew up a little bit of coworker gossip way out of proportion. Iā€™m not stalking you, Iā€™m not writing ā€œMr. and Mrs. Bā€ all over my notebooks at school, Iā€™m not waiting by the phone hoping youā€™ll call. SO STOP ACTING LIKE I AM!!</p>

<p>You and I have a lot in common. I know that youā€™ll ignore this situation and ignore me until itā€™s been a long, long time, when Iā€™ve forgotten all about it and all of the feelings I had have gone away. But you know me. I donā€™t forget things. I forgive, but I donā€™t forget, and I have a natural inclination to spite people. So if youā€™re trying to avoid me until I stop having the urge to ignore you back, then guess what? Youā€™ll be avoiding me for a loooong time.</p>

<p>And finally, guess what? Iā€™m moving on. Iā€™m still going to spite you or get revenge in some way or another, but not because I still have feelings for you. I donā€™t like to leave business unattended, and I donā€™t forget, so Iā€™ll be sure to return the ā€œfavorā€ of blatantly ignoring me.</p>

<p>I cannot read your mind.</p>

<p>I certainly cannot read what was in your mind 3 years ago when you asked me for that report. And now I must explain?</p>

<p>gosh donā€™t get this whole deal</p>

<p>Why can you see that your sister is driving everyone in her life away and not see that you are doing the same thing? I, for one, have no intention of putting up with your behavior for the rest of my life. The way you acted last night and this morning is completely unacceptable. Itā€™s amazing that you donā€™t see that.</p>

<p>Diversity =/= getting rid of all white people. Next time you have a diversity panel, please try a little harder not to make me feel completely alienated and despised. Thank you.</p>

<p>I thought your days of trying to get over on me would end when you left. Trying to get us to send you money because you had to feed yourself on the weekends! As if the university would close all the dining halls with a bezillion students on campus! Just exactly how stupid do you think we are?</p>

<p>Well, Iā€™m glad you told me you wanted us to be friends again. That lasted as long as you needed a friend. Now it seems I am once again relegated to the outsider status. Hey, thatā€™s okay. Whatever. Figure it all out on your own. Iā€™m done trying to find out anything. It shouldnā€™t feel like Iā€™m pulling teeth to get you to tell me anything. So. </p>

<p>Iā€™m done.</p>

<p>Just because someone asks you a question does not mean they are prying into your personal life and planning to somehow use the information in some nefarious way. Have a little more faith in mankind, and try dialing back the mistrust meter. Life is too short.</p>

<p>Seriously guys, I mean I love you butā€¦seriously?</p>

<p>Your plan last year wasnā€™t the most successful, was it? So get it together. In a big way.</p>

<p>I hate wasting my day waiting around for repairmen!</p>