<p>It’s not fair. I worked my tush off for 12 YEARS in high school to get scholarships. I’ve done my part. I’ve filled out all the financial aid paperwork and applied for every freaking scholarship I could have. As much as I say I want to pay for this on my own, I REALLY DONT…you’re my parents and you’re supposed to be helping me through this. </p>
<p>You’ve said my whole life if I worked hard, I could go anywhere I wanted…YOU LIED</p>
<p>i think it’s pretty crappy that my roommate and one of my closest friends decides she’s too busy to talk to me while i’m abroad for a semester, right when i’ve landed in a completely new place and want just one thing to stay the same.</p>
<p>You told us at New Year’s you weren’t coming to visit. We found out Saturday (not from you) but from another sibling you are coming…on Thursday. Thanks. Just because you are retired snowbirds doesn’t mean WE don’t have a life.<br>
We DID have theater tickets for Friday, a dinner party Saturday and, I know it’s hard to believe, but we also had plans for Valentine’s Day. Yes, I will cancel all for you, my BIL …but it could have been so much more pleasant had you communicated with us!<br>
And P.S., No, I am not going to make my HS senior cancel weekend plans just because you can’t bother to call in advance…</p>
<p>I’ve got news for you people at work with no lives: When I hear, “We start at 8:00,” I’m going to get there a little before 8:00. A little. Not 6:00, not 7:00, but 8:00. It’s pathetic that you have so little to keep you at home that you make a competition out of who can get to work the earliest. Maybe I should feel sorry for you, that you don’t have husbands, wives, and kids you’d rather spend time with. Anyway, get over the fact that I go to work in order to earn a living, not for personal validation.</p>
<p>You don’t have to print out the daily reports every day. They’re stored in the computer. We can get them any time we need them. Printing all this paper and filing it every day is absurd. “Just in case” what? The info from the reports is on the server. It gets backed up every other day. There is NO “just in case.” If the auditors need it, we can print it then. </p>
<p>And please stop printing monthly reports when you’re halfway thru them, and re-printing them every time you change them. What a WASTE of paper!</p>
<p>How many trees did you have to kill to mail me the huge, glossy catalog of yours full of overpriced crap? Come on, you call that $5,000 dress “sportswear” - I cannot associate it with any sport I’m aware of! And how did you get my home address? All I ever bought at your store was a 50% off of a 50% off skirt!!!</p>
<p>Every time you walk in to ask if it’s done, the interruption keeps me from getting it done, dummy!!!</p>
<p>For the love of all that’s holy, could you PLEASE line up the papers before you staple them together?!? They don’t fit in the files when the pages are strewn about haphazardly and I am tired of taking everything apart and fixing them every time I need to get something from a client folder.</p>
<p>I was wrong , but I still don’t know what to do to help you.</p>
<p>For the first time in several years, I’m doing better than you. I’m not celebrating because you’re screwing up your life, but when are you going to learn that you need to care about yourself? Nobody cares about you more than you. The friends you invest so much time into aren’t worth your future. </p>
<p>I used to envy you for having a vibrant social life, while I had no life, until I realized that’s all you have going for you. You’re flunking out of school, you can barely pay your rent, and you’re costing our parents more money than I ever have. You’re only getting by on looks and that won’t last very long with the horrible sleeping and eating habits you have.</p>
<p>You don’t listen to anyone. You think you know everything. If you mess up even more, you only have yourself to blame. We warned you.</p>
<p>I hated myself because I thought you can balance it all, while I could barely balance whatever little I had, but I was so wrong. The more you know…</p>
<p>SIL - Why must you always try to top things? Why must you always be the “winner”? Low self-asteem, I suppose.</p>
<p>I want to know why bad things happen to all the nice people and the a…h…always seem to be ok. I am so frustrated dealing with crap in my life and i know Ihave so many blessings i am just so tired of it and angry!!!</p>
<p>You are making it hard for them to learn. You haven’t even provided a useable text. They are all failing, unless they knew the material before. This would be just another difficult but formative experience if it weren’t for the thousands of merit $ at risk. I sure hope they figure out a way to learn the material despite your disdainful presence. And that the GPA doesn’t suffer so much that the merit $ evaporate. Everyone else so far has been fabulous. You, however, have been a far outlier.</p>
<p>You tried raising the rent on our long time neighbors because you and your wife were getting a divorce and you needed the money.
They moved out and the house has been vacant for almost three years.
Guess you didn’t need the money * that * bad.</p>
<p>Now you decide you want to move in, but it isn’t " to your standards", so you are doing extensive remodeling, adding to the top story including a dormer that overlooks our side and back yard( not to mention, which will block the sun, after I have installed sun loving plants on the west side of our house over the past few years.)</p>
<p>It’s fine you want to move in- you could have sold it to a developer I guess, but couldn’t you have warned us of your plans beforehand so we could have made arrangements for better screening so we didn’t feel you breathing down our necks?</p>
<p>Okay, look. My dog is eight inches tall. She is a foot long. She is not going to hurt you. She is still a puppy because she is a youthful, active breed. You have a puppy (several times larger than mine I might add). You never used to leash your puppy, and our puppies played peacefully. Now you want to leash your puppy. So what - every time I let my dog out you’re going to get ****ed and turned around? They’re not hurting each other. They’re PLAYING. Your 6 month old black lab needs more exercise than one short walk a day!</p>
<p>I fell in love with you and you really had me believing that these feelings were mutual. No, believe me, I didn’t misinterpret signals, you lied to my face and used me and played me and kept me on a string. Do you know how effing used and stupid I feel right now? Did you know that I felt like dying while I was home over the break and I hid bottles of bourbon in my dresser to get me to sleep? We would’ve been great and you know it but it hurts to think about what could’ve been. Not only did you mess up this relationship but we could’ve been best friends too, you said it yourself. Man, you really messed this up.</p>
<p>We would skip our morning classes just so we could lie in bed together for a few more hours–what was I supposed to think? What happened to visiting over the summer and breaks and that long list of movies we were supposed to finish before the year was over? What happened to all the restaurants we wanted to try together? I thought you wanted me to meet your brothers and try your mom’s eggplant parm. I thought I was going to take you around the city and show you where I hung out.</p>
<p>No I didn’t misinterpret anything, you’re just a liar and I truly hate you from the bottom of my heart. I should’ve seen it coming sooner but I’m a sucker for your face and I hate it. </p>
<p>I wish you weren’t so damn cute. It would make this a lot easier.</p>
<p>Why do people leave important phone messages and then rush through the phone number so that it’s not possible to figure out the number? Speak slowly and clearly. I’m not psychic.</p>
<p>If you say you will be here at one o’clock, be here. I have other people who want this couch and I need it gone today. At least phone if there is a problem!</p>
<p>how can you not go to your grandson’s wedding??? there is no excuse, no significant health problems, no problems financially, you just dont like going places…ok i accept you arent a social person and find enjoyment out of puttering around in your workshop rather than going out but this isnt some stupid event, this is your grandsons wedding!!! you havent responded to my messages or emails because you know its wrong! am i supposed to be the one that tells my son you dont want to go… ok, so we have lived far away from you from 26 years and you havent got to be that involved with your grandchildren here but imo that makes it even more important, this is a big event. you went to my niece’s wedding!
i shouldnt have to beg my own father! and i am so angry and sad. you havent even had the decency to tell me yourself that you arent going, i got the info from my brother and other family members</p>
<p>I finally got the nerve up to tell you what you’ve been saying to me for the past year hurts. I’m tired of it. I was ready to scream. I even said that I knew your intention was not to hurt me, but none the less, your words did hurt. Then you write back and say I’m attacking you and that you don’t owe me an apology? If my words hurt someone, I feel I owe them an apology even if I don’t intend to hurt them. My gut telling me that this friendship is over was right on. This friendship is over. You have never listened to me, only to yourself. I’m moving on and not looking back.</p>