GD- you sound like a wonderful young person and I know you are going to do great things with your education.
I have seen a lot of situations where a kid coming from a family without a lot of financial resources gets derailed at college due to family issues and conflicting loyalties and trying to be a super college student while trying to be a super family member.
I think the other posters are trying to suggest that it would be a shame if this happened to you. Which is why the idea that you can’t get a summer job next year (like virtually every college kid in America who has a self-help component has to do, like it or not) is jumping out at people as an issue.
I’m sure your sister has issues and your willingness to help is a huge load off her mind (and very handy financially). But you need to step back and recognize that like it or not, your family is going to have expectations and demands of you for the next four years, and many times you will have to say no to them. You simply cannot afford to for-go summer earnings, even with your extremely generous and fantastic aid package. You need your savings right now to provide a financial cushion once you get on campus until your work-study checks start to come in. And the same situation will kick in next August, and the one after that, and the one after that. You might have an opportunity to study abroad- with a scholarship to cover fees and expenses. But you won’t be able to work overseas (most of the time, work visas are hard to get) so your savings will need to go even further the next semester when you are back on campus.
Perhaps you can have a sit down with a couple of family members (individually) and explain to them that although you’ve got an absolutely terrific aid package, there is a significant self-help piece to it. You will need to work on campus all 8 semesters- which of course makes sense. And there is a sum of money you will be required to earn over the summer in order to bridge the gap between the cost of your education and what you can pay. And so you would appreciate their understanding that for you it’s not optional to get a paying job or not- it’s what will keep you in college until you finish your degree.
Best case you can get $100 from the local garden club and $300 from the Rotary club, which pays for your plane ticket this time. But those awards are not renewable, which means that you’re stuck next time.
I know how conflicted you must feel between wanting to help out your sister and the need for cash. But your situation is a lot more common than you think, and many times, the family wins out. I’ve seen kids leave college over- quite literally- $500. Parents are overdrawn at the bank plus owe back taxes and are two mortgage payments late. Kid takes a leave of absence, goes back to the old high school job bagging groceries or folding sweaters at the Gap and saves the day… kid hands paycheck over to Mom and Dad. Which is quite wonderful and fantastic… and that’s what family is for. But long term, how much better to be a college graduate who can really help your family. But one problem leads to another and before you know it- bye bye college, maybe in a few years when things at home stabilize and everyone is more flush financially.
You will never be in a better spot to start and finish college. You’ve got no dependents, no mouths to feed, no pediatrician co-pay to worry about. Go to college and don’t look back.