@screennamessuck … so sorry that no one has responded to you yet.
I was also deferred from UChicago and am in a similar spot. Our family’s EFC is higher than my parents can pay so also looking for good merit.
I looked at your other posts (I am also waiting on Northeastern) and your stats are great! I would kill for that ACT score. Also sounds like you aren’t entirely set on a certain career path (like Medical, engineering, CS law or whatever) I am quite similar … I really love so many things I don’t want to just pick one.
Actually a lot of our situation is really alike. I am also NMSF … I am scared I won’t make finalist as my SAT is only 1500 and my ACT is only 33, I think my essay was good, but after I sent it, I found a really bad typo on it … my GPA is good and lots of AP classes too. (but not all 5s like you!)
I got a full COA offer from UGA. I wasn’t thrilled … ultimate safety and big state school and not “fancy” enough. I was going to ignore it. Mom keeps bugging me because it was such a good offer. Stop talking about the money, its about my dreams right?
Got accepted into Emory and what they wanted us to pay actually made my mom cry. She wanted me to be able to go there. It was over our ECF but matched what the NPC said. It was so much money. I was so angry at her and my dad for not being able to say yes to that. I was a total brat for all of break … and feel a little guilty because they both work and I know the family has had rough times in the past and things are better financially now than before. My mom is the practical one, dad is more of a dreamer.
So I went for a visit at UGA yesterday … They asked me what was holding me back from accepting, I told them I was afraid that I wouldn’t be challenged enough and that class sizes were going to be so big and that there wouldn’t be other students like me.
So on my tour they set me up to sit in on a freshman honors seminar. I was blown away. It was only about 15 students … all super super smart and the discussion was amazing and because classes just started back I was surprised at how in depth they were going. It was only the first time the class met for the new semester. They said the seminar is a full year so they were picking up where they left off … amazing discussion about philosophy and modern politics and geographic mindsets. I wanted it to last all day!
I also got to have lunch with a senior who went through the honors program. The way she put it is that the honors college is like having the T20 experience and being challenged and around similar students without having the T20 student loans or price tags! She majored in History and PolySci and got a minor in arabic. She just got accepted to Harvard for a combo law/ps JD/PhD program … she is waiting on a few more.
So that visit (I just got back home this morning) really has changed the way I think now. I can be awesome anywhere if the school offers a solid honors program and has the majors that I want. There are going to be great students everywhere and there are going to be great classes.
Here is what I think … if you got full COA from UCF … go for it. If you are in the honors program you are going to be challenged … AND because it is big you are going to be able to explore lots of different things … the honors programs allow you to get whatever class you want.
If you knew exactly what you wanted then paying more for undergrad makes a lot of sense … since you are exploring and want more a well rounded education then going totally free might be a good choice.
I think that all our GCs and teachers (and parents!) and classmates have all made us believe that if we don’t get into a “top school” then we have done something wrong. I think that is now a total lie … I refuse to continue being a sheep and following that way of thinking.
If I don’t get into Northeastern or they don’t give enough merit aid then I will go to UGA and I will choose to be happy and I will do great. I have a couple other ones but I am not thrilled about them. I would rather be unthrilled about a free school than unthrilled AND have my parents pay for college.
But I am not going to keep chasing “dream perfect everything I ever wanted” schools and ignoring reality … it is not good for me, I don’t think it is actually true and it is really bad for my family.
Have your parents offered to help pay for your grad school if you go somewhere that they don’t have to pay for? Mine have said that if I go to UGA or stay local (University of Illinois) then they would help with grad school if that is what I choose or give me a lump sum of what they were willing to pay (about $15K per year) for me to do whatever with … like travel, take a non-paying non-profit job, internship whatever.
Sorry so long … because we flew back this morning I didn’t go to school and I am kinda both bored and excited at the same time.