<p>I’d like to clear some things up.</p>
<p>When I talk about me taking loans out, I’m talking about my family. We’re going to have to take out all loans for the first two years, not through me, but through my family. So I can take out more.</p>
<p>I’ve been talking with my parents. My dad is nearly 100% certain that in a couple of years he will be back to making over $200,000/year. That is what he used to make, that’s what he’s heading towards. College for me just came at a really bad time when our family’s income completely tanked because of job switches. In a couple years, my dad WILL be able to contribute towards my education. And after I graduate, they will be helping me pay it off since they cannot pay for it right now. If I end up with $80k-$90k in loans (which is unlikely because my dad will be able to help in 2 years anyways), I’ll get help paying it off. And no, my family will not be backed up because by that time, the only thing we’ll have to pay off is the house. I won’t get into details, but it’s not like we’re going to get backed up where when my dad makes $200,000 but he’s putting most of it towards the previous years’ expenses.</p>
<p>I’m not going to settle for a mediocre engineering school just because my family is in trouble right now. It will all play itself out, $$ in the end won’t be as much of a problem as I believe you guys think it is. Of course, I won’t be taking out $30-40k a year and leave school $120k+ in debt. I will probably end up with over $60k. But as I said, I will be receiving help paying it off. </p>
<p>Anyways, I’ve come to notice a reoccurring theme of negativity with a few of the users on this website. If I come up with a possibility of something I can do, I don’t want to get immediately shut down blatantly. If it doesn’t seem realistic, try to help make it realistic. It seems like some people don’t realize that at this point in my life, this is the most important and monumentous decision I’ve had to make thusfar. Because of finances, this process has induced on me the most stress I’ve ever encountered by far. And I’ve experienced a ton of personal stress, so I know what stress is. But this takes it to a new level. It’s not because I am absolutely clueless, it’s because I just care that much. So, I don’t want to be apprehensive of posting ideas or questions on here. I want help with what I’m doing. I don’t want to be told that what I want is not possible. Telling me that an idea that I come up with is completely unrealistic is not helping, it just induces more stress. If there’s something that I come up with that you really don’t think is possible, tell me something I can do to help me step towards that goal. It really seems like most of the responses I get on here are blatantly honest. Honestly is a good thing (of course I don’t want to be lied to), but I would like to be shown a little more compassion for the amount of stress I have been under throughout this entire thing. The college process is stressful for any student. But a student that has to make a decision based on finances brings it to a completely new level.</p>
<p>Don’t take this as me not being appreciative of everyone’s help. I appreciate all the help and feedback that people have given to me on here. I just don’t want coming on here to add stress.</p>