<p>;)
I was waiting for someone to come back and tell me that " I really don't know what goes on"
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and its true I don't know everything taht goes on
but contrary to what my 17 year old thinks- I wasn't born "yesterday"
Before D#1 attended college- I had the impression that there were schools where students predominantly used alcohol and those where they predominantly used marijuana.
I would have labeled Reed as a "pot" school.</p>
<p>But now, it seems that alcohol is still dominant- but it isn't used noticeably, overall, except for "events" like the aforementioned 40's night, and winter ball.
She complained about winter ball- and preferred events where pregaming activity wasn't as obvious.</p>
<p>However- I must add a caveat- that this would be "olde Reed", during my daughters time. When she was a student in sub free- during junior year- I wasn't even allowed to have a bottle of wine I had bought to make clam spaghetti. We had to go to a different dorm. Students took it very seriously & the honor principle worked as long as they did.</p>
<p>But now, with the increase in popularity for Reed, more students are apparently choosing the school who haven't quite "gotten" it yet.
For example- a student who was drunk & fell off his dorm balcony ( not in subfree), and is suing the school.</p>
<p>In olde Reed, that would have been unthinkable, because students are held responsible for their actions as adults are most other places.
But also as long as they are not hurting others- or damaging property etc. they aren't going to be sanctioned.</p>
<p>The CSOs ( community safety officers) are not viewed as police or parents, but mentors, and from what I have seen that is how they act. </p>
<p>During Renn Fayre their job is to keep the high school students out ( as well as the Portland police)-</p>
<p>Its possible that if I had a child who was heavily into drinking/drugging as I had been when I was 16-21, I would have a very different view of the school.
( and if they obviously still needed external structure for behavior not just academics, it wouldn't be my first choice)</p>
<p>But there is so much going on and required at this school, that I still think for the most part it doesn't attract kids who feel that parties should be an important and regular part of college- which seems to be borne out by the numbers of students that will be freshmen this fall & whose parents quizzed me about Reed. They liked the school and while some even applied, no one that I currently am aware of, that I gave advice to, decided on Reed.</p>
<p>USC however is very popular among that group-Im not saying that is a drinking school- I barely know anything about it. But most students I know looking at Reed, have received the accurate IMO impression that it is * intense*, and I think they want a little lighter atmosphere</p>