I find it interesting that the assumption is that the parent is going to create a to do list for the child. I didn’t read it that way. I read it more as offering ideas to think about. I share ideas that I think my kids will be interested in all of the time. They can make the decision to ignore the suggestions or they can opt to pursue them. They have much more limited life experiences and we as parents can see things about them that they may not recognize in themselves. No reason to not expose them to lots of ideas to contemplate.