<p>There isn’t really a way to create a loophole for your family. They earned 120K this past year and 100K the year before. Both of those years are very solid and don’t create a boom-and-bust problem that you seem to want to indicate. Frankly, the 75K “low” year is not too bad… there are families of 4 that live off of 60K a year and much less year after year.</p>
<p>Institutional aid (the money the actual college awards in tuition breaks, etc) is tighter than ever. I think that you should plan to expect to see a financial aid package based on that 120K figure and brace yourself for that. I highly doubt any letter writing appeals will do anything. Anecdotal accounts seem to indicate that even if a college accepts a “plea” from student/parent and respond favorably, usually the response is somewhat tepid – 1K to maybe 3K more in aid, sometimes in the form of a college-sponsored loan.</p>
<p>The college is likely also to point out Parent-Plus Loans for your parents to take out. I do <em>not</em> recommend it. I am just saying that from the college’s perspective, a family with 120K has the theoretical ability to pay out 15K - 20K (or more) directly from yearly income flow, cash savings, and/orequity from a house, AND on top of that, take on a 8K Parent Plus Loan for a total of 23K - 28K chunk from the parent. Then the student chips in 4K summer earnings, 2K work study, and 4K (rounded up) student loan for a total of 10K from the student. So now between parent and child, the contribution is between 33K - 38K. Total COA is probably close to 48K at an elite college these days… that 10K or so “gap” is often then gifted as a need-based merit offer.</p>
<p>That is probably your most likely scenario.</p>
<p>What is going on from the college’s perspective is that the college sees “ability” (not EASY ability, but definite capacity) for your parents to pay 15K in cash plus 9K in Parent Plus — so they will push for it and see if your parents pony up. If your parents pass on it because they have (sensibly, I think) put a 15K a year cap, the college shrugs and says “fine” and asks the next college student on the list with similar academic stats and family income if <em>his/her</em> parents want to pony up that kind of money.</p>
<p>There are just too many kids in your bracket (GPA and family income) for colleges to make a big fuss if the parents have limits. The last few years have been the BIGGEST glut of HS graduates in decades… colleges are at capacity, overstuffing their dorm rooms. It is a college’s buyer’s market, not the other way around. There is a bit of shift because of the recession, but not enough to make a dent… notice that college tuitions have generally gone up last year – the colleges are NOT tightening their belts and making it more affordable, they are building facilities and competing with each other and raising their rates.</p>
<p>Sorry to be a downer. I hope your stats bring in something much more wonderful than the expected future based on the cases I have read about and have experienced first hand (two kids in college). I just think if you are prepared for what is a highly likely outcome, you can get VERY serious about making an exciting Plan B that has colleges well within your financial range that you can be happy about attending. Seriously - get busy with Plan B because MOST kids are in that boat right now… make your Plan B so awesome that it starts looking like a Plan A. </p>
<p>Good luck.</p>