<p>Firstly, I would just like to thank everybody for their time into answering my question. It means a lot to hear the opinions of others on a topic that means so much to me.</p>
<p>Lehigh2017 – That’s what I wanted to hear! I value academics over everything, even my social life. Even my violin and ballet. If anything can get you somewhere in life, it’s knowledge and a bit of luck. And thank you for making your reply relevant to my original post!</p>
<p>Longhaul – Your advice sounds like it would be a smart move for me. I will ask my ballet mistress for some volunteering I can look for that relates to ballet; likewise for violin, I know my violin teacher encourages me playing around the area (ie, nursing homes) and volunteering time helping less fortunate children learn about music in general. I understand that, with prestigious college admissions, the majority of it is chance. My high school’s class of 2015 showed that: the val got into Harvard, but not Princeton or Yale. The sal didn’t get into any of those three. The number three girl got into Yale (but not Harvard or Princeton.) So I’m very familiar with that. Thank you for your advice and I hope your son does well in the college application process.</p>
<p>Dream4Life – I’m sorry, I didn’t acknowledge your first post. Would you mind telling me which AP tests you got 3s on? If that’s personal, it’s okay. I appreciate your input.</p>
<p>Lisa6191 – I am not offended in the least! In fact, I find your opinion truthful in many ways. I will try to work hard, yet also enjoy my youth, if that is what you recommend. I dance, and I love reading and writing in my free time. Doing things I love while balancing it out with challenging academics is actually quite exciting for me, so while I may be missing out on parties and whatnot, I still have a close-knit group of friends. I still go to the mall sometimes. I still throw immature birthday parties. I hope you don’t get the wrong idea about me, I’m not a sadist out to work myself to death! And again, like I said above, I recognize the role chance plays in admissions, so I am not going to be naive about anything (“I want to go to Harvard on a full ride, yay me.”) But thank you for making your opinion clearer. </p>
<p>Spiffy1994 – Thanks for the personal experiences. I do think I balance things I love (violin and ballet) with school. However, I want to come off as a hardworking student that cares about academics very much during my interviews. That is genuinely who I am, possibly because I’ve grown up in a very academic-nurturing environment all my life (May I just say, Asian parents!) However, could you please let me know what you think is “horrible?” Is it my wanting to self-study, or something else?
And thank you for the honest opinion. I just would like to mention that I disagree, I think being hardworking and strong academically is something colleges should prioritize. </p>
<p>Amberave – Just like with Spiffy1994, I would like to thank you for sharing your personal experiences. I’ve played violin for eleven years now, and while my theory skills are laughable you are swaying me on deciding whether to take AP Music Theory (my school does offer it.) I do want to improve my musical understanding, as I am very arts inclined, but I’m just afraid of C-bombing the class. Perhaps I will study with my violin teacher (A symphony violinist) and see how I do. However, when it comes down to focusing on</p>
<p>Theresa9 – Thank you! Nice to hear from more than one person that self-studying is doable! Congratulations on your 5.</p>
<p>If I failed to acknowledge a particular poster, I apologize. Thanks again for everyone’s input, and if anyone new has a say, feel free to voice your thoughts as well!</p>