<p>so i'm going to one of the top party schools in the nation...but we are the HARDEST to get into!!! any guesses??</p>
<p>but iw as wondering about the whole hooking up scene!!</p>
<p>i mean...what if i just want to get with someone...is there too many/ too early rules!!!!</p>
<p>help me out</p>
<p>In college, there will be people of all preferences, beliefs, and morals. So... do whatever the **** you want.</p>
<p>What school?</p>
<p>ucsb!!!!!!</p>
<p>Yeah, Santa Barbara is such a sex cauldron. :P</p>
<p>There's the walk of the shame in the morning. Your reputation could be at stake if you are spotted doing it.</p>
<p>oh, and moan a lot. guys like that.</p>
<p>^^ in accordance with reputation: It can catch up to you if you are every considering the chance of being taken seriously... for some reason, human nature probably, the lack of discipline with sex=lack of need for respect in serious situations.</p>
<p>Just have sex with everyone. No one cares about rules except girls. If you have sex with a few guys people will think you're a slut; if you have sex with 1,000 guys people will think you're a slut. In that case, go for the mile!</p>
<p>hate to be a party pooper, but remember</p>
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<li>1 out of 5 americans is estimated to carry genital herpes (a life-long infection)</li>
<li>1 in 13 has papillomavirus (genital warts, cervical cancer)</li>
<li>not to mention a whole bunch people with bacterial infections, such as chlamydia, which can lead to inflammation of the uterus (PID) and then possibly infertility</li>
<li>1 in 6 women who are barren are so because they had an std</li>
<li>some things like herpes can be passed on to your kids long after youre done with college partying</li>
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<p>so try and pick out cleaner-looking guys (cuz even with available protection, the risk exists) and avoid having casual sex with fraternity ones, cuz they are most likely to carry the whole bouquet -- trust me that it is better to plan and give it some thought beforehand rather then end up running a high fever on stomach-turning antibiotics and having to pay for doctors visits and pills</p>
<p>ucbhi-- i am laughing so hard! thank you!</p>
<p>kihyle-- thanks for the stats, but generally, most sexually active college students don't think about that. which is sort of a bad thing. what i feel is that yes, there are all of these scary statistics out there, but the chance of it happening if you're using a condom properly is slim to none. there are plenty of ways to protect yourself from pregnancy and stds/stis. it's not really fair to peg fraternity guys as those most likely to carry stuff, because while yeah, i'm sure some do, many really care about using protection and being smart.</p>
<p>Try Yasmine or something. You wear a patch and it's like the same as the pill. I wish I could wear a patch and have all my sperm to be sterile. USE TECHNOLOGY WOMAN!</p>
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<p>Sorry, but you're just flat out mis-informed. A condom will not protect against some of the most serious STD's (such as herpes and HPV).</p>
<p>"A condom will not protect against some of the most serious STD's (such as herpes and HPV)."</p>
<p>Herpes won't kill you though (AIDS might) so what won't kill you will make you stronger!!</p>
<p>unfortunately I have oral herpes (cold sores).. don't know how I got it, but when they appear they are a biatch, I wouldn't recommend them.</p>
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<p>HAHAHA. lol@accepted</p>
<p>first of all...ucsb isn't that hard to get into but for a party school its pretty hard. i heard a study that said 74% of girls at UCSB have STD's but im not sure if thats accurate. and i wouldnt recommend going around banging every one, it will come back to haunt you.</p>
<p>Hooking up is as hard as you make it out to be, especially as a girl. If you really want it, you can probably get it.</p>
<p>Here's some good advice: Never wear a condom. This way, you can have at least 6 kids in a short period of time! Everyone wants kids, why go for the hassle of marring wheen it's right at your face? :p</p>
<p>yea britney spears wanted kids. i feel sorry for that baby and the other one thats on the way.</p>
<p>You "feel" sorry?</p>