Should I have an open relationship?

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<p>Why must we refer to them by their nationalities? I doubt your high school-aged girlfriend would be totally okay with you dating someone you met at college, especially with summer nearing and her graduating. Instead of asking on a forum, maybe ask the girls what they think.</p>

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<p>We must refer to them by their nationalities because its their defining characteristic. Just like when you are referencing a black guy you say… so yeah this black guy I know… you get the idea. Plus, it makes them sound exotic and hot-like. Erm, the persian girl and all that.</p>

<p>But uh, to answer the Op’s question---- your dillemma is as old as time. You’re in a relationship, but you still want to screw around. No man has ever faced this problem before!! lol.</p>

<p>Well, you’re not going to like my answer, but 99% of the time you can’t date both girls. Just imagine letting your girlfriend date someone else along with you. You wouldn’t ever, or if you did, you’d only be “putting up” with it - you wouldn’t like it at all.</p>

<p>Jealously and feelings of inadequacy will always come up. So no---- you can’t see both girls at the same time long term, really – unless you’re doing it all sneaky like, and that may lead to consequences later (well, maybe - if they find out).</p>

<p>Basically, pick one.</p>

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<p>college is one big open relationship</p>

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<p>It’s only polygamy if he marries both of them.</p>

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<p>I asked my Perisan girlfriend about an open relationship and believe it or not, she said yes! I thought she’ll be mad at me but she is not. The reason why she said yes is that she “goes with the flow”. I think she is ok with me dating other girls while at the same time dating me.</p>

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<p>congrats</p>

<p>don’t flip out if she starts seeing other guys</p>

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<p>This is what she’s thinking in her head right now: “Gee, I’m so glad Billy wants to see another girl, cause I’ve boinked 3 guys since his ass went off to college! tee-hee.”</p>

<p>yeah, just so you know.</p>

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<p>^Agreed.</p>

<p>But the OP is still probably excited over the fact that he has the green light to be a manwhore.</p>

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<p>I mean honestly, open relationships CAN work, but they should be established as open at the beginning… I’d bet $50 that either Alix’s scenario is real, or my scenario (she’s gonna go have some fun with other men) is real.</p>

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<p>There’s a girl at my school who asked her boyfriend for a open relationship and then hooked up with a bunch of guys, but threatened to dump him when he got close to hooking up with a girl.</p>

<p>hehe good luck is all i have to say ;)</p>

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<p>And… what’s the problem? There shouldn’t be an issue that she may go ‘boink’ (Awesome word btw, Alix) some dudes because that’s pretty much why ktsai is so determined; so that he can boink some chicks.
And in the end everyone is happy with plenty of VDs to go around! yaay :)</p>

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<p>There shouldn’t be, but I was telling him that he better not get ****ed/annoyed/hurt if she does.</p>