<p>im deciding whether or not to join a sorority. i dont consider myself the "sorority girl" type at all. i dont have patience for fake, **<strong><em>y girls. im also not a wild intense partier. my friend the other day was lecturing me and my other friend about why we shouldnt join one. she said its catty, no one in them are true friends, no one keeps in touch with their sisters after college, etc. my sister had a similar experience in that she was in a sorority but she didnt participate at all and is not friends with any of her sorority sisters. she didnt go to cal though.
however, i would like to party to an extent and have a social life. and i think it could be a good way to meet friends. so i dont know. i feel like i dont really have a realistic view of what sororities are like.
does anyone who knows what sororities are like at cal have any advice? is it the way to go for a social life, or does it not really matter? be honest, are the girls catty and *</em></strong>*y? any reccomendations of sororities with nice, normal girls? any advice appreciated! thanks!</p>
<p>Sorority rush is a formal process where they take you to every sorority house. My suggestion is that you sign up to see all of them and meet with all of the sisters. If none of them feels like a fit, you can always decide not to join.</p>
<p>Some of the sorority girls that I talked to have complained about fakeness. But others have established close and genuine friendships. So why not rush? It’s not as though you are making any commitment to join.</p>