Should I transfer?

<p>I’m a freshman at northern Arizona University. I just finished my first semester at NAU and I’m about to start my second semester. I originally chose this school because I wanted to get a degree in something to do with environmental issues/sustainability. I was choosing between NAU for environmental studies and Arizona state university for sustainability. I ended up choosing NAU because I love the school and town, and I liked their program, which is pretty flexible.</p>

<p>I’m freaking out right now because I just feel like I made the wrong choice, and I don’t know what to do. ASU is in my hometown, about 15 minutes from my house. NAU is 2 and a half hours away. I love NAU as a school, but I don’t feel like I’m as challenged as I should be, and I feel like the sustainability degree at ASU is much more useful and would get me farther than my environmental studies degree. ASU is a little bit more expensive, but I could live at home and wouldn’t have to pay for housing. My boyfriend, who I’ve been with for two years, goes to ASU, and so do all of my friends, I really miss all of them when I’m at school. I haven’t made a whole lot of good friends at NAU. I have a lot of acquaintances but only two good friends (one of which is my roommate). </p>

<p>There are a lot of things I don’t like about ASU- the campus is really big, class sizes are huge for popular classes (300+), and there are too many people for it to be personal at all. At NAU, most of my classes are 20-30 people, and the big classes have probably 100 people tops. There is definitely a reason I chose NAU over ASU, but I’m just feeling like I’m not going to get many benefits from being there. The program at ASU seems to be more challenging and just a better program in general, I could live at home and save on housing costs, my boyfriend and I wouldn’t have to be long distance for 3 and a half more years, I could be with my friends and family, and there are a lot more jobs down here than there are up at NAU. But I would probably have to stay in school a little longer, I’ve already signed a lease for housing next year (I can get out of it, but I’m living with my current roommate and I don’t want to leave her), and I really love NAU. </p>

<p>I’m just really confused because I feel like I made the wrong choice, but I’m also worried that if I transfer I’ll regret it. I’m definitely staying for Spring 2012, if I’m going to transfer it would be Fall 2012. Help :( what should I do?</p>

<p>You’ve had a number of views with no responses so far, so I’ll offer an opinion. Your only compelling reason for transfer is the quality of the academic program. Statistically speaking, college romantic relationships are unlikely to last, whether the couple is together or not. You can keep in touch with your ASU friends electronically. Living at home is not necessarily the greatest idea. You have a couple of friends at NAU and you say you love it there, so think carefully about whether the sustainability program at ASU is really so much better or whether you are rationalizing.</p>