<p>Discipline and motivation is a problem with our K-12 children. The children of CC parents are not normally in that category, so for many it is hard to understand. As a teacher of above-average students, the qustion I am asked more than anything else is "What do I have to do to pass?" Not what do I have to do for an "A?" And when I tell them that it is their grade, that they need to do the best they can, they don't get that what I want is the best effort of each child. Instead, they want to know how many lines, how many verbs - etc. Many of my students do just enough to get by, and the student who strives for excellence and goes above and beyond just for the joy of learning or the sense of a job well done is a very small percentage indeed. And my school is to a very small percentage diverse - these are primarily white, middle class kids. The teachers who challenge, make kids work, etc., get the flack from parents - they are making the children work too hard! It is the rare parent who appreciates this. Now, before you say that you were never like that, remember, I am NOT talking about CC parents, who generally want the teacher who challenges the kids. One of the best teachers I ever knew had a Ph.D. in government, taught AP government, had all 4's and 5's from the kids she taught that took the test for years, was in tears numerous times each year, as parents battered her because Johnny did not get an "A." She was unreasonable, too hard, etc. This attitude of wanting Johnny to get an A for doing nothing is quite prevalent. Just ask other teachers. We have come to realize that the public is paying lip service to quality in education. I have a reputation as a demanding teacher, and maintain discipline in my classroom. As the only Honors teacher of my level, my numbers of Honors students has consistently dwindled, from 5 sections to only 2, because of rumors about how "hard" I am. And when the schools do attempt to uphold discipline, believe me, more times than not the parents threaten a lawsuit, and bring in the lawyers, taking precious time away from the classroom or administrators dealing with other things in the school. And as for testing results, remember, many of those other countries do NOT test every single child, including special education, low IQ, etc., but we do. We will NEVER equal the results from other countries for that reason. This is not to say that we can't do a better job in some areas. But realize that because so many baby boomer parents have had to struggle and work hard to get where they are now, when they had children, many, not all, gave their kids what they didn't have, and have tried to make things easier for them. There are now a bunch of kids out there that think it should be handed to them. This is a societal attitude that needs to change before we can do anything to improve the schools - I realize that not all do as well as ours does. And the elementary and middle schools need to stop worrying so much about a kid's self-esteem, in giving grades, etc., so kids don't get a false sense of what excellence is. And you are right, in an effort to deal with their developmental issues, we have lost the need to show them what life is really like, and perhaps to deal with it - to show them that hard work does pay. I remember being in and ARD (Sp. ed. meeting) called by the parents because their child "couldn" spell, and I was making her work too hard. She was acing all quizzes and tests. Instead of praising her for working hard, I was told I was making her work too hard to get the writing correct, and I was told I could no longer do that. So, the next quiz, I got such gibberish that I couldn't even tell what the word was - I brought up the fact that if I were to be a chemist, I would have to work harder, since that is something that is my weakness, but to no avail. With hard work, she could do it, instead was told she didn't have to. Last year, I referred a young lady who wore a t-shirt with anaked girl on it. I had to attend a parental meeting, etc., and was told I was "picking on their child." As long as parents think their children should be allowed to do anything they want, discipline problems will not go away. Believe me, this is repeated over and over in every public school in the country. How can I get away with doing the least and get the best grade? Little thought to how much the child has actually learned, etc. In other countries, the quality of education is tantamount, and the challenging teachers are applauded. The attitude of a large portion of our society is the opposite.</p>