<p>Hi, I know this question is asked a lot, but I would still like to know from people who had some experience with this. </p>
<p>I'll be an incoming freshman and I still have the option of switching to a single from the double I currently have. My personality, I would say, fits a single. I enjoy some time alone. When there are family gatherings/parties, I usually leave to go to a quiet place for 5 to 10 minutes with no one around, just to get a breather. I don't feel that comfortable around people all the time. I would like a place that I can relax in without worry after a stressful day. I'm not the most social person out there. I'm very reserved when I meet people for the first time. I like quiet time as it's a part of who I am. </p>
<p>The single is in a place where upperclassmen are, mostly. As a freshman not knowing about some stuff, I was wondering if a single would really benefit me. The place where I have in a double is filled with freshman (my rommate's not a freshman, though) so in terms of asking where things are/how to do stuff, it is not a problem. It's also cheaper, obviously. </p>
<p>If the only reason for me to stay in a double is the "college experience," then I would prefer not to. I'm not interested in having a traditional college experience. Although it would be cool if I do, 3/4 of the world doesn't have it, so I see it as a secondary preference. </p>
<p>Comments and advice would be much appreciated. Thank you :)</p>
<p>I really don’t think you need a double to have a college experience. I mean, it’s a traditional aspect of most people’s college careers, but it’s by no means necessary. A roommate is only one aspect of college- you also have things like clubs, classes, volunteering, and internships… the list goes on. If you don’t feel that comfortable around people all the time, I would go with the single. I’m the same way and I have a single and LOVE it. I like having some alone time to myself without having to worry about talking to a roommate or adjusting what I do so it isn’t intrusive to my roommate.
As for the singles being in a place where mostly upperclassmen are, that might be a bit of a problem unless you’re willing to make an effort to make friends. It’s nice to have friends in your hall and people you’re familiar with, but not having the privacy of a single will be a tradeoff. Ultimately, I think you should consider your personality type. Your dorm is where you’ll spend a lot/most of your time; if you’re always a little uncomfortable, it will be a bad experience for you, but if you don’t really mind the idea of a double, the cheapness and being around people your age is a good plus as well. But don’t go with the double just because it’s cheaper, I’d say; it’s a waste of money anyway if you’re not happy there.</p>
<p>Stick with the double. Your roommate likely won’t be there the whole time and you can always escape to a study area or library or something for alone time.</p>
<p>^ exactly. If the only reason you want the single is so you can have occasional alone time, it’s not necessary, and the fact that you’ll also be in a dorm without freshman means you’ll probably just alienate yourself socially.</p>