<p>How many kids really use ECs for anything other than showing things like ‘leadership’…something that I’ve read many times here on CC that can be shown any number of ways and not necessarily in school. Homeschool kids have ECs that they pay for.</p>
<p>I volunteer quite a bit in the public schools, and I know a young woman who had learning challenges ( mainly processing speed), and because she was also quite bright, she perceived herself as " different", and did not seek to get the help she needed in elementary or in middle school ( this was a K-12 school), although she had an IEP which specified an hour of pull out every day.</p>
<p>Her parents had difficulty finding a way to help her understand that it was Ok to get help when needed, but as a 6th grader, being perceived as " special ed", was a bigger deal, than being able to complete the work.</p>
<p>The school she attended however had what some places would call " extra curriculars" embedded into the curriculum.</p>
<p>One of these EC’s were the seven winter sports Fridays that her school used for students to go to the slopes , for the younger kids to ski, snowboard or snowshoe and for the older students ( high school age), to teach them ( after completing a training program run by the resort).</p>
<p>( the students who remained at school had many choices of activities for those days, run by staff, parents and upper classmen)</p>
<p>Her friends had been snowboarding for several years, and she had never been, but her 6th grade teacher thought she would get something out of it and made sure she received a scholarship to go. ( the parent group gave scholarships and provided equipment and clothing for those who asked).</p>
<p>Because she was determined to keep up with her friends and because she perceived taking a physical risk on the mountain was not as intimidating as the risk of raising your hand to ask a ? when you were the only one who didn’t understand, she was riding Black Diamond runs in a few weeks and the confidence she earned from trying something difficult and succeeding & and the respect given her by her friends when they saw her determination translated into more success back in the classroom, it wasn’t as scary to take a chance at school cause she knew she would get it eventually.</p>
<p>Physical challenges, just accomplish that more clearly, than more hours spent cramming for a skill that is just out of reach,</p>