<p>Had a great time at Parents Weekend 2013. </p>
<p>For the first time, we stayed over Saturday night instead of Friday night…so while we missed the orchestra concert, we did get to see and do things we had not been able to do in the past.</p>
<p>On Sunday morning, after attending chapel and a few performing arts events, we walked back to Founders Hall for lunch. The buffet line, swollen with visiting families, was long. Literally out the door. To kill some time, I steered my clan to the side of the building facing Noxontown Pond. The detour was 10 minutes well spent, as the views from “The Front Lawn”…both across the water and facing Founders are truly inspiring. And there was still plenty of food to choose from by the time we got in line.</p>
<p>A few more reflections on the weekend:
- Though Tad Roach was out of town visiting his ailing father, Associate Headmaster Will Speers did an excellent job filling in at the Parents Meeting.</p>
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<li>During that session, I was once again struck with how different the emphasis seems to be at SAS vs. other schools with which we are familiar. Tad Roach occasionally refers to the school as being “counter-cultural”…which I think is accurate, but tough to understand for people not connected to the school.<br></li>
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<p>In an attempt to better define the vibe I’ve gotten as an SAS parent over the years, I would say that the school values kindness over status. Resilience over achievement. So, instead of talking about how many students got into Ivy League schools last year (and quite a few did), they talk about the importance of kindness — even citing George Saunder’s recent commencement address at Syracuse. This sort of thing is just one of the reasons why I love the school. </p>
<p>The achievement stuff?…I’m of the opinion that it’s going to happen anyway. After all, achievement-culture is all around us. Society’s concern (obsession?) with doing more, scoring higher, wearing the right clothes, getting into a certain type of college, earning more, having a bigger house, a better car, etc. is omnipresent.</p>
<p>I guess that’s what being “counter-cultural” means at SAS…that the school’s leaders try to foster an environment where that stuff is secondary, maybe even tertiary.</p>
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<li>A final thought: How nuts was the student who, after performing a solo during the dance presentation, knocked out an excellent rendition of a Bach Cello Suite to accompany a group number? I was simply astonished.</li>
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