St. Paul's School Concord NH

<p>Ya I would too, It’d be weird to let everyone know you know their names</p>

<p>so are people still wearing uggs now, or no?</p>

<p>Haha I’d be pretty freaked out if random people started calling me by my name…</p>

<p>Yeah, people are still wearing uggs, but most girls are not because it’s been a lot warmer compared to how cold it usually is.</p>

<p>alright sweet. i’ll probably just wear flats then.</p>

<p>I say just wear something you’re comfortable and confident in! lol</p>

<p>Creative: Empty your in box. I tried to send you a message.</p>

<p>Is there a SPS store somewhere on campus? If so, someone tell me where it is</p>

<p>…please
I’m gonna wear khakis, dress shoes, and a cute long sleeved dress polo shirt, lol
to revisit weekend, is that alright?</p>

<p>There is one on campus, by mem hall and freeman, but if you’re driving it’s between the athletic center and before right before the soccer fields/mish shop.</p>

<p>Can you get in trouble from a teacher if they hear you say a bad word…not during school hours?</p>

<p>hahaha um i have had my share of these moments including calling one of my friends a b**** (i don’t think the site allows you to write it) in front of my advisor…she just laughed it off but i’ve never seen anyone like get in serious trouble for cursing</p>

<p>Oh ok, so at most just like a talking to? Cuz sometimes I can go on rants with a few bad words and teachers over-hear…just don’t want like a call home to my parents the first week of school something. That would be bad.</p>

<p>I am not sure about SPS, but I asked a similar question with my Exeter interviewer (who was a legacy who graduated sometime in the late 90s, I think). She told me that though certain people frown on overuse of certain language (she told me that they do not like f*** and b**** too much but people do it in front of dorm groups and stuff) that it does not, for the most part, result in disciplinary action. </p>

<p>Of course, she told me that using such language in class would be rude and to never to do that. I think she also mentioned that most BS kids are pretty laid back, but it’s not “cool” to act as if you need a swear in every sentence… She told me certain advisors, and english teachers, swear “in a cool way”. </p>

<p>She was pretty cool, she went ahead and told me the occasional “damnit” was used every frequently (not frequent enough for you to think, really!). It’s usually bad to use swear words as in insult someone though, but as a compliment it would be okay ("Damn! That’s a fast 5k). </p>

<p>That’s what she told me, I do not know how many Exonians she represents but she seemed pretty cool (and super smart). Of course Exeter≠SPS, but I think such policies would be similar between these two great schools. Boarding School≠Prison… :)</p>

<p>In my dorm the faculty swear almost as much as the kids. It’s really not a big deal. You just have to watch who you’re around. Some care more then others. You’ll figure it out.</p>

<p>I have never herad anybody getting in trouble for swearing. Except in chapel.</p>

<p>Alright cool thanks. So pretty much if I’m not hooked on ganja…and don’t drink at BS, and don’t steal and crap like that. Nothing else gets like major punishment?</p>

<p>Don’t cheat lie steal do drugs or haze and you won’t get any major punishment.</p>

<p>What are the limitations regarding the opposite sex and major punishment. The handbook is ambiguous.</p>

<p>Don’t get caught do “the act” or visiting your love interest outside of intervis hours.</p>

<p>Also, in terms of behavior like swearing and public displays of affection and the like, be mindful that this a community in which faculty and their young children live. Don’t do o say anything in public you wouldn’t want your 5 year old sibling or cousin to see or hear.</p>

<p>I don’t swear a lot…but I don’t want to slip up and have them tell my mom. That’d be my worst nightmare. I don’t care if I get some privileges taken away, just don’t tell the rents!!</p>

<p>Well people have been caught like making out but you don’t get punished for that, it’s just awkward. And when you visit another sex’s dorm (interviz) the door is allowed to be closed, but advisors will stop by periodically to make sure everything’s okay. But if you’re caught like “doing it” then you’ll get punished, and when they have a disciplinary announcement for you in chapel they’ll say that you broke the rules of intervisitation. However, if you are caught in a dorm that is not yours not during interviz hours and you are “doing it” you get into way more trouble. They would like place you onbounds or something, which means that you must be in your room during study hours, w/ no visitors, and you can’t visit other dorms</p>