@rsstraaten, Before you go any further, you need to get your arms around the money! Only six colleges in the U.S. are need-blind for internationals. For the rest, that means that your financial situation will be a factor in admissions.
Now is the time to sit down with your family and have a heart-to-heart about how much they can (or want) to spend on your education.
If you really don’t need financial aid, don’t apply for it, as being full-pay will put you in a better position in competition with other international students.
If you do need financial aid, then apply for it with your first year application. If your situation changes and you need it later, you may not be able to get it. Look for schools that guarantee to meet full demonstrated need for internationals. Or that offer merit aid to internationals.
Need-based aid is difficult to predict for internationals as net price calculators often don’t apply. But the first step is to talk to your parents and understand what’s workable over four years.
It sounds like you already have a rough list of the colleges that you are interested in. If you would post your thinking, it would be easier for us to recommend similar schools. Since there are thousands of choices you need to do some pre-editing.
Have you already visited the U.S.? Will you be able to visit before you apply?
Your grades, scores, ECs and life experience will not keep you out of any college in the U.S. (even Harvard and Stanford) but competition is fierce so you need to have a balanced list of reach/match/safety.
I would suggest that you keep an open mind on location and size. Asians tend to favor urban schools with well known names; however, there are many academically excellent schools that are not in cities and that don’t have high name recognition outside of the U.S. A high achieving Indonesian would be a person of interest at many academically rigorous small liberal arts colleges. What LACs lack in international prestige, they make up in quality of education and strong admissions to top graduate schools.
Education USA provides advice in Surabaya to Indonesians wishing to study in the US:
http://jakarta.usembassy.gov/study/study-advising.html