<p>momof3sons:</p>
<p>Thank you for welcoming me to this forum.</p>
<p>Starch:</p>
<p>Of course we all believe what we wish to believe. It would be so boring otherwise...</p>
<p>My beliefs about Swarthmore are based on a myriad of credible sources and not on meaningless magazines college rankings or internet opinions expressed in college fori or prestige. I have been involved in academia as an administrator and professor for over 20 years and have had the opportunity to learn about what makes an effective education and meaningful educational experience. </p>
<p>You are correct in your statement that competing LACs can offer students the once in a lifetime experience that I mentioned in my earlier post and which I believe my daughter can have at Swarthmore, should she choose to attend there. If you reread my post, you can see that I never stated that Swarthmore is the only place where this can be attained. As a matter of fact she is waiting to hear from other schools where she could also have this. It is irrefutable that there are other fine colleges with talented and passionate students. However, there is no denying that each institution has a core character that sets it apart from others and that is what makes for a great or miserable college experience.</p>
<p>I know my daughter very well. It is from this knowledge that I have concluded that Swarthmore would be a great fit for her. Colleges are like shoes. If they fit, you can walk in them endlessly. If they do not fit, you cannot wait to take them off. I only want for her, a great college fit and not one where she cant wait to get out and move on. </p>
<p>It is a good thing for your son that reality did not set in for you in time to insist that he attend the flagship public university and that you were willing and able to fund a liberal arts education in a small intellectual environment, like the one you, too, experienced as an undergraduate. I applaud you for having provided your son with such an opportunity.</p>
<p>Flagship state universities do a good job. Graduates enter the workforce. Many succeed and outperform many LACs graduates financially. However, I do not measure a persons worth or success by what they earn, but by how they live their lives. Likewise, I do not measure the value of the college experience by what the piece of paper earned after four years of college can get you. To me, the process, not the outcome is far more important. So can my daughter get a good education at our flagship state university? Sure! However, I know that to my child, sitting in a small classroom where discussions can take place will be far more meaningful than sitting in 200+ seat auditorium listening to a lecture, or worse still, sitting in front of a screen watching a lecture just as students often do at the flagship state school. I also know that to my daughter, having to endure football frenzy and the obligatory keg party of many state universities and some privates on football weekend, would be torture. And sororities and fraternities is something that she can do without as well. Many of her classmates are being forced by their parents to attend because it will be a free ride for them, but I refuse to do so. No, I would not make her endure our flagship state university which she can attend for free as a result of her academic accomplishments. Instead, I will not retire early and will continue to work so like her brother before her, she, too, can have the privilege of attending the school that she chooses. Perhaps it will be Swarthmore, perhaps not, but in any event, I know that it will be an institution where she will not be just a number in a crowded classroom impacted by the latest state budget woes....</p>