<p>OP, there are kids getting free rides, yes. There are some getting free rides+. THere are kids getting choices as to which free rides to pick. There are kids, one at my son’s school, right now that I personally know, who is agonizing (do we feel the pain?) between Harvard and Princeton, after narrowing it down from a bunch of other choices, including some free ride+s. Some people also won the Mega lottery.</p>
<p>Most of the kids who are graduating from my son’s high school, are trying to find the college they like best that they can afford. Yes, there are some scholarships and financial aid packages, quite a few, as a matter of fact, but most of the kids and their family, the vast majority of them are going to find it tough to pay for the next hopefully 4 years. Some will go out on the financial limb to do so and crash when they simply cannot pay anymore. </p>
<p>There is not enough money out there to pay for every kid’s dream college, or every kid’s ideal situation from the choices s/he has when the acceptances come. There are at least a half dozen kids who are turning down NYU with tears in their eyes (and their parents’) because it is just too expensive for them to go there. I say that school because I know this for a fact right now that this situation exists at my son’s school. Some will go there as commuters AND will have to find part time jobs as well because they so want to go there. And,yes, there are some who will go there and have their whole way paid by their parents and whatever package NYU, the government (state and federal) and outside scholarships. </p>
<p>I am seeing an increasing number of families choosing state schools and many whose kids are commuting because that is what is affordable. THe dollar amount to provide boarding college to every kid in that school would be prohibitively high. The good news is that every single kid in that class has a college option that is affordable because of the many state schools, some community college, some 4 year that are around. That doesn’t mean that they are all thrilled to go to their affordable choice, but it has been a long time coming that this situation exists. </p>
<p>I guess our country COULD afford to pay for every single student to go away to college. I can just imagine what would happen to the cost of college then. As it is, colleges say that they are only charging a part of what the true cost is. As it is, most schools integrate whatever state and federal aid a kid gets, into the financial aid packages. I, for one, would rather see that every single child who so desires can go to college, but it would be a local one. Why all of a sudden after high school does boarding school become essential? No one feels it is an entitlement for high school even when some of the high school around here are down right nasty and dangerous. If anyone deserves to be boarded out, it is the kids at some treacherous high schools (and below) in extremely adverse family and community situations. At 18, it is adulthood and not as vulnerable, helpless, needy as small children who are caught in such environments. And yet, there should be that right to go away for college? I don’t think so. I don’t think that one is going to be a go.</p>
<p>The current system is flawed , I agree. There are niches and crevices where it is blatantly unfair. But the way it works is that for those who are in very low income situations, the federal government offers up to $5550 in PELL money. That is enough for most kids to go to a local college, a community college . For those whose families make or have too much for PELL, there is $5500 for the student to borrow with no credit check, no credit history needed. Those who need more than what PELL provides can use that money too, and if there is a need, up to the need level the loan is subsidized with no interest at all charged while in school. </p>
<p>Where there is a serious flaw in our system, in my opinion, is that once those two years of college are done, some areas do not have a good, affordable option to get that 4 year degree. That to me, is where the attention should be focused, and those who are in that predicament are the ones that I feel deserver federal/state/college help the most. But for those who are graduating high school and think that there should be money out there for them to go away to college because they don’t like their local choices, well, um, no, it does not work that way automatically, and I don’t think it should.</p>