<p>My insights on SUNY's go a bit back...but, my experience at SUNY - Oneonta remains a VERY positive one...why? great campus.... really beautiful trees, and all of the "classroom" type facilities centered around the quad... we got a new library back then and it radically changed our study and hanging out habits... it became the new place to hang our hats.....nice dorms, clean, reasonable size rooms.... yes the kids were all from NY state....but they were from all over NY state so I met a lot of new folks... I was on a sports team, we went to the nationals...(none of our friends now, including several Ivy grads and Top 10 grads can say that!!) We had champion soccer and baseball teams when there... we had great opps to be TA's if we wanted..... close relationships with our professors..... the friends that I made are friends for life... I still see my college roomates, our families remain very close... the bigger group, including the guys and their families also still get together, for our 40th birthday year we all went to a Dude ranch...all the roomies and spouses came for my surprise 50th. We got together in Cooperstown when one of the guys took a big job out west... we have all had a lot of professional success.... in our immediate circle there are several PHD's, university professors now, along with a CFO for a major airline, several IBM execs... school superintendent..... and my "favorite" statistic (which is never cited on any important school rating) is that NONE of us are divorced... we are all still married to our first spouse. I am thinking of at least 12 of us, all still with our families... I am not saying that is because of Oneonta, rather that middle America actually is a reasonable place to be if you want happiness, stability, challenges and values. </p>
<p>It is my understanding that when I went there, Oneonta was the top State College, after the 4 State Universities.... yes we did party, but my view on that is that it was okay to "grow up" in a college environment and our friendships were important safeguards in providing boundaries. We watched out for one another, my most frightening experience was waiting to get into a Joni Mitchell concert at Cornell, we were at the front of the crowd, when the doors opened, one of the gals (who was short) got pushed to the side almost behind the door as it was pushed open.....THAT was scary....... </p>
<p>I have heard that Geneseo is the "hot" school.... I cannot speak from current posturing on which ones are the best....but I can testify that I got out of school (as did my brothers, who also did SUNY's) without any loans. That was very liberating...... my view was that I was not yet ready to choose my course of study as a HS senior..... so a 4 yr SUNY school would give me a strong foundation and I would spend bigger $$$ later on graduate school.... I ended up at a big corporation and they paid for my graduate study so, it all worked out just fine. </p>
<p>My S, during his Ivy interview, was asked what he hoped to get out of 4 years of college, his response still warms my heart.... "from my dad (graduate of said Ivy) I have seen that I will get the best education, top professors; from my mom, I have learned that I will make life long friends." Not too shabby, no?? Very few choices in life are ends in themselves.... the key is to take advantage of what is available where you are..... keep the BIG picture in mind.... stay open, active, honest and kind and life will be good...</p>