<p>The question whether the Ivies are so great that you should turn down Swarthmore is almost too dumb to answer.</p>
<p>Gibby is dead wrong on the quality of the people. There are more students at the Ivies, because they are bigger, and they tend to have more naked ambition, because that’s who the Ivies attract. Swarthmore has absolutely top-quality students who want a smaller college experience. Many of them are amazing.</p>
<p>Gibby is right to consider financial aid, if you are eligible for it. I believe Swarthmore has a better reputation for aid than any of the other LACs gibby mentioned, but it’s not likely to outbid Harvard or Yale on a regular basis. However, the child of a very close friend was accepted at Harvard, Yale, Dartmouth, Middlebury, and Swarthmore last year, and got the best financial aid offer from Swarthmore by a meaningful margin. So it can happen.</p>
<p>It sounds like you are talking about applying ED, so you would not be able to compare offers before accepting Swarthmore. Nevertheless, if when Swarthmore accepts you it presents a financial aid offer your family doesn’t feel it can live with, you can decline the ED acceptance and apply RD anywhere you want.</p>
<p>I am pretty familiar with education both at HYS and at Swarthmore. Swarthmore is different, but not necessarily worse by any stretch of the imagination. Wherever you go, your most important educational experience will come from two or three teachers in your major department. At the Ivies, you will have a broad range of people to choose from, but whether or not they are any good as teachers will be a little random. Chances are, you will seek out the best teachers and focus your education on what they are teaching. At Swarthmore, your choices will be more limited, but the quality range will be much tighter as far as teaching is concerned. No one gets tenure at Swarthmore without being a completely solid, great teacher.</p>
<p>Don’t assume, by the way, that your science education will be worse at Swarthmore than at Harvard. Swarthmore does a great job producing graduates who find places in tippy-top PhD and professional school programs. If you go with the flow there, you will be fine, and maybe even better than if you went to Harvard.</p>
<p>Also, Swarthmore is 20 minutes from Penn by train (and the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania, Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania, the University City Science Center, the Wistar Institute, etc.). The train station is right on campus. If you want to work in a big lab while you are at Swarthmore, you can do that. If you want to go into the city to play, it’s considerably easier than at places like Princeton or Stanford.</p>