I know boys’ soccer, so my advice is based on that. There is so much to unpack here!
There’s targeting athletically, and then after that there’s targeting academically. Kids that are high level D1 recruits stand WAY out, as early as 9th grade. In 9th grade, they are the best player on a prep school team that has very few 9th grade players. If you have a kid like that, reach out to Stanford, Notre Dame, UNC etc. (And, you don’t need my advice!) Plus – the coaches will find you.
If you don’t have a player at that level, then 9th grade is still to early to really target schools. You may as well reach out ahead of tournaments, to a range of lower D1 and higher/mid D3 schools. Your club coach can provide guidance.*
As for the academic part, the SSAT score should give you an indication of the SAT. If you are focused on high academic d3s, your kid’s grades and scores should be close to admitted students, but can be a bit lower. If you are an impact player, there’s more academic leeway.
Possibly helpful anecdotes, from the players themselves: one got into Williams with a 3.4 GPA. Stanford’s cut off for the SAT was 1250. The lowest SAT for an athletic recruit admitted to Emory was a 1230. Finally, the SAT for Michigan and some Ivies is 1100 (that’s what the recruit said, I am not 100% sure of this). If your player is likely to score a 1500 on the SAT you probably know this already. Similarly if it’s likely to be 1100. Anything in the middle, I kind of think you don’t have to worry about if you get the athletic piece right.
Bottom line: unless you have a true superstar you still don’t really have to worry about targeting/reaching out. At least with boys soccer.
*I found no coaches willing to project where a 9th grade boy would end up. While annoying at the time, now that I have an 11th grader, I see why. Kids are still developing, some improve, some stagnate and are passed by. Also a college coach told me boys make a big jump between 10th and 11th grade, some make that jump and some don’t, and you can’t tell with certainty ahead of time.