<p>THe list above reeks of the sense of entitelement and hurt feelings that underlies so much of the CC threads. I've grown weary of it, and at the risk of being provocative I've compiled my own list for any recipients of rejection letters who have locked themselves in their rooms for the last couple of months:</p>
<p>a. Yes, of course there is a lottery element to the process. That's a continuation of your entire life - who your parents were, the genes you received, your gender, your academic ability and your skills and weaknesses. Much of who you are is the result of lottery selection. </p>
<p>b. You are smart and able. There are tens of thousands as good, or better than you. Some of them took your spots at your elite university. (And some took your spot because daddy has been writing checks to the endowment for many years.) Sorry.</p>
<p>c. As for legacies and athletes? See A above.</p>
<p>d. Your $50 admissions fee entitles you to nothing in the way of detailed statistics and other proprietary information from the admit folks. WHen you're rejected in your first job interview they probably won;t give you any details either. </p>
<p>e. Don't like the SAT/ACT? The Japanese process of testing for admission to high school and university makes our process look like kindergarten. I'm sorry that colleges like to have some objective criteria on how kids perform relative to one another. In sports it's called a "score" and they don;t adjust the final score because one team doesn't "test well". Also, when so many high school graduates write so poorly, and grade inflation has become so persistent, the SAT seems more, not less necessary, than every before. If you were running an elite college, would YOU abandon objective testing completely ? </p>
<p>Kids, you've crossed from childhood to adulthood. Most of your lives you've been told how special you are and how important your self-image and esteem are. Well, most of what you've done to date is now reset to zero, and it's time to build a whole new resume and track record in an entirely new arena. </p>
<p>Treat it as a challenge and opportunity, and stop whining.</p>