The university is really a complex community of communities, some large, many small. Yes, there’s a big party scene but most students either aren’t part of it or participate in it only sporadically; the partiers and the non-partiers generally get along just fine. Yes, there’s a lot of support for intercollegiate sports, especially football but also to a lesser extent men’s basketball and within a distinct subculture hockey, but on any given football Saturday (of which there are typically 7 or at most 8 home games per year) more students are not at the game than those that are. Most students are very bright and work pretty hard, but they also find time to make friends, socialize with their friends, and participate in non-classroom activities they enjoy and/or find meaningful, whether that’s religious worship services, intramural sports, yoga or other fitness/wellness classes or programs, community service, political activism of any stripe, performing arts groups, the student newspaper or some other student-run publication, or any of literally hundreds of student clubs and organizations.
College is the easiest place in the world to meet people and make friends. This is perhaps especially true at a large and diverse university, where students from just about every conceivable background and with just about every conceivable interest are thrown together. You’ll meet people at your freshman orientation. You’ll meet people in your residence hall. You’ll meet people at the dining hall. You’ll met people in your classes. As your first semester ramps up, you’ll be besieged by student organizations of every variety inviting you, practically pleading with you, to come to a meeting to get to know them, and be part of them. It’s an embarrassment of riches, in a way. You can’t possibly meet or spend time with everyone, or participate in every organized activity, so you’ll pick your spots, spending more time with the people you best hit it off with (and this will almost certainly evolve over time) and doing the things you most enjoy or find most meaningful. And you’ll end up being part of a small community within the larger community of your residence hall; part of a small community within the larger community within each of your classes, and eventually within your major; and part of one or more small communities defined by common interests in one or more student organizations or activities that you choose based on your own interests and values Making friends will be the least of your worries. If you’re like most people, some of these may become lifelong friends, among the people you will be closest to in your lifetime. It won’t matter what most students do. For one thing, apart from going to classes, studying, and engaging in basic life functions like eating and sleeping, there’s probably not much that most students do, because students (and groups of students) do so many different things. But beyond that, even if many students do X, if you really prefer to do Y and Z then you can do Y and Z, and chances are you’ll be spending time with other
As for Ann Arbor, I would characterize it as a delightful small city, easy to navigate on foot which from a student’s perspective is especially welcome because most students don’t have cars, and you really don’t want one. There are two main student-oriented business strips immediately adjacent to the Central Campus (check a university map), one on South University east of East University beginning at the southeast corner of the Diag and running east to Washtenaw Ave. and to some extent on adjacent side streets, and the other along State Street off the northwest corner of the Diag, together with adjacent streets, especially East Liberty, East William, Maynard, etc. A few blocks west of State Street is Main Street, the heart of the downtown business district. This is a larger area for shops, restaurants, bars, and service businesses serving the larger Ann Arbor community and to some extent the surrounding area It’s not just Main Street; the cross streets and other north-south streets paralleling Main Street also support thriving businesses. Then there’s the farmer’s market/Kerrytown area, just a 5-10 minute walk from the northwest corner of central campus which in addition to a regular farmer’s market has a number of interesting shops and restaurants, including the famous Zingerman’s Deli. Visit. You’ll like it.