<p>The Top 10:</p>
<p>the academies: Andover, Exeter, Milton, Deerfield</p>
<p>the episcopal boarding schools: Groton, St. Pauls, Middlesex</p>
<p>others: Choate, Hotchkiss, Lawrenceville</p>
<p>There are also private day schools particularly in Boston, New York, and DC that equal those schools in selectivity and academics if not prestige (because their reputations are by definition local).</p>
<p>My Top 10:</p>
<p>Top five - Andover, Exeter, Deerfield, SPS, Milton/Groton</p>
<p>That's your top ten?</p>
<p>My top 2 - Andover, exeter</p>
<p>I'm soooo sick of this question. Everyone always says the same schools with A/E at the top. It never changes, so why ask?</p>
<p>What about Asheville School? I think it is ranked in the top 25, not sure though; I dont think many people have heard of it, but it has been around for over 100 years.</p>
<p>Andover is a great school. Both the Bushes went there, but don't hold that against them.</p>
<p>Are Andover and Exeter equally good at all fields, or does one school offer a better, say, science/math program while the other school offers a better humanities program?</p>
<p>Andover and Exeter are the most named for a few reasons. First, they are twice the size of any of the other top preps. More importantly, they have been open to a broad range of students longer than the other schools meaning that they weren't just full of kids from rich and powerful families. To oldtimers the truly elite schools are St. Paul's and Groton which remained wealth preserves for a long time. The moniker for the top preps has long been St. Grottlesex. But it's impossible to choose a best among the top 5 as they are all very different. Kids choose size, strengths in their areas of interest, strength in athletics, campus feel and so much more. I loved how casual Andover is and that it is nicely integrated into a good suburb near Boston. I didn't apply after visiting Exeter, it seemed formal, isolated and less friendly. Although I didn't look at it when I applied, I've come to love St. Paul's from visiting friends there. Everyone knows each other, it has fabulous dorms and a beautiful campus. Deerfield is also beautiful in a classic new england way and has a close knit feel. All send roughly the same % to top colleges, so kids should really spend time at all.</p>
<p>Ginny, most would give Exeter the nod for math/science though I disagree, and St. Paul's is the strongest in Humanities. However, they all have amazingly unusual facilities, teachers and course offerings</p>
<p>If I had to say a top ten, ranked in tiers.</p>
<p>Elite: Exeter, Deerfield, Andover, St. Pauls. Choate
1st tier: Lawrenceville, Hotchkiss, Groton, Milton, Taft</p>
<p>andover has really lost its identity as a new england prep school. no sit down dinners, dress code, and(from what i hear) not as much school pride. Exeter and Deerfield are both still classic new england prep, with one inclined more towards academics/achievement/studying and the other toward athletics/socialbility/overall experience. There's a reason why these two have by far the highest alumni giving rate. St Paul's is a great school whos reputation has really been hurt by the whole headmaster stealing money from school funds fiasco, but is recovering quick. Choate seems to get dismissed from the elite a lot on these forums, but from everyone i know, it is still considered in the same league as st pauls, andover, deerfield, and exeter.</p>
<p>Just as in colleges, the most important thing in choosing a prep school is FIT!</p>
<p>Don't just blindly buy into the brand -- look for the right school for a specific student. </p>
<p>All schools will be sending students to a range of colleges -- even when I hear that a school is 'just not that good.' If I look at the matriculation profile of its graduates and I see that in the past five years they've sent grads to each of the Ivies, plus some top LACs -- well if the place is the right fit for my boy, then it's not going to hold him back regarding college admissions.</p>
<p>I think you will find that people who graduate from Exeter are truly fond of their time there . . . I would say more so than at some other schools, like Andover. At least that is my experience.</p>
<p>Interesting you bring up the St. Paul's scandal because it really tells you how closely elite schools are followed. The head of school didn't even steal, the whole issue was that he was making over half a mil a year and living large. My mother sent me the clip when this broke--it was on the front page of the Wall St. Journal!!!!!! A school with 500 kids in podunk NH rates a story the size of the Enron scandal!!!!! And then the NYT got on it. Bottom line, the world still sees these schools elite and wants them to fall on their faces.</p>
<p>Day schools in Boston equal to Andover/Exeter etc include
Nobles and Greenough and Buckingham Browne and Nichols</p>
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<p>Sorry. I was in a hurry so I decided/forgot to the the other five. :)</p>
<p>i know about the st pauls scandal because i went to a prep school myself during that time. from what i heard, the rector was redirecting funds from the school endowment to his own personal bank account. It was a big deal- alumni giving really crashed, and it lead to the retirement of not only the rector, but other high level administrators as well. however, prep school scandals aren't anything new. anyone remember the groton sexual assault deal like 5-10 years ago, or the milton sex scandal last year? generally, most kids at prep school know what happens when a scandal breaks out at another.</p>
<p>True, most of us at prep school have friends that go to other boarding schools. So, when a scandal breaks out, we are usually some of the first to hear about it. Also, school papers such as Andover's Phillipian cover different scandals and stories at other preps.<br>
It is true that Andover may have lost some of it's old-school prep identity by abandoning sit-down dinners and dress code. However, they have made great strides in trying to diversify the student body. Some people from different backgrounds might feel intimidated/put off by/or uncomfortable with a dress code. Although it might not fit the classic prep mold, eliminating a dress code gives students a chance to express themselves.<br>
As far as Andover lacking in school spirit, I disagree. Go to any of the hockey games, or Andover/Exeter competitions and you'll see some of the best school spirit out there.</p>
<p>there are also day schools in maryland that are just as good as the NE Preps</p>
<p>Gilman, Landon (DC), Georgetown Prep (DC), St. Pauls School, McDonogh School...., but they are usually only known in the local area, national more for sports.</p>
<p>and these day schools in manhattan are really good too (some are better than Andover and Exeter even):</p>
<p>Horace Mann, Brearley, Collegiate, Spence, Riverdale, Dalton, Browning, Ramaz, Chapin, Fieldston, to name a few...</p>
<p>I was going to apply to Collegiate when my dad received a job offer in New York City.</p>
<p>He was going to work in the Rockefeller Center.</p>
<p>...too bad he turned it down.</p>