<p>I agree, if we are comparing the weather in two particular cities, certainly one to the other is fair. However, you (or whoever) was being far more general.</p>
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hey, the question wasn't why she didnt consider UCLA, it was why she didnt consider Berkeley. look that over again...
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<p>Im aware, and got it the first time.</p>
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but i dont feel like not getting advisors when i need them, not getting the classes i need, not getting the help from professors when i want them, the list goes on.
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<p>As much as Ive heard horror stories in various settings, Ive only heard complaints a very few times. Anyway, many of these things happen at private schools as well (does anyone actually think private school kids get every class they want? If most of your classes are capped at small numbers, good luck getting into them.) </p>
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humans arent able to explore EVERY single aspect of everything. as such, while i agree everyone should at least make the effort to find out as much as they can by themselves (as in this case...what programs each school offers, the people at a school, etc.), all people must rely at least to some degree on others' experiences and research.
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<p>I agree.</p>
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it's not reasonable, and just not possible. so others' views, especially those views from people you trust, either greatly from love and familiarity or moderately because of intellect and experience, will have to suffice. their views can't be so wrong as to lead you astray into trouble. it cant be the only source of info, but it shouldnt be ignored either.
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<p>The thing is, youre talking about the most up-to-date things, the hardest to keep a track of when youre getting information through people who get it through people who get it through people, and literature which takes months to publish. I dont expect you to be omniscient. </p>
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stereotypes, as negative and bad as they seem most times, must come out of some truth and large scale trends.
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<p>Not necessarily. They can come out of some very, very minimal truth and very small general trends. Heck, they can be completely false. Have you not heard the quotation, I believe by Stalin, that a lie told often enough becomes the truth?</p>
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you go to Berkeley...obviously your views lean in that direction. so maybe your advice needs to be taken with a grain of salt as well...i realize you need to defend your school and that your opinions are completely valid, but there's an obvious bias nonetheless. i go to none of the schools in consideration and i really feel no overbearing sentiment toward any of them, other than that they're all strong schools...
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<p>Honestly, my views lean in that direction? Im not quite sure what that means. Any persons advice should be taken with a grain of salt, and I dont need to do anything. Bias, bias, bias. Along with my bias, Ive also read and investigated things a lot more, and am aware (more so than many) of what is going on. Ive heard the mistruths, the overstated generalizations a thousand times and then some more. I know more than most where the truth in them is, to what extent they are accurate. I defend my school when it deserves it, criticize it when it deserves that. I am not some blind follower and loyal supporter regardless of what happens. I have many ties to UCLA as well if that makes you feel any better. I have ties to the UC system in various ways. Such is life. I think Im pretty darn fair if you ask me. Perhaps I seem hostile or zealous because Im sick of the same mistruths and falsities being perpetuated and repeated, and sick of other peoples ignorance and lack of information. Your sister really judged more than 20,000 because of whatever she heard or experienced? Doesnt that sound a bit absurd?</p>